Post by ashleyd on Aug 24, 2010 19:32:31 GMT -5
I'm so frustrated with being seen as stuck up ... or awkward... or any other label people give me because I'm shy. I really don't want to make it hard for people to talk to me, but I get so afraid sometimes, and snooty remarks and/or ignoring me just makes me feel that much worse about being shy. I don't know why it's so hard for me to talk to people... I guess half the time I'm worried that I'm being judged, or that I'm boring. What doesn't help either is that I'll be talking to someone new and completely blank.
Does anyone else find small talk extremely difficult sometimes? I just, I dunno. Some people I can just open up to easily, while others, for some reason, I get terrified of. I've been working all summer and met some new people, but I feel third wheeled (by the two girls when it's just us three) or left out because I am too afraid to participate in a conversation. There's this one guy we hang out with... for some reason I,ve always felt nervous around him... but like he's a pretty nice guy and a funny one, but for whatever reason we just never really connected. I feel bad because I know he doesn't really like me in general, and I feel like it's because I'm so shy and a lot of people don't get that we're not actually snotty, just nervous.
I just feel like making friends is really hard, no matter how much I try or how positive an attitude I try to maintain. I wish I didn't need so much time to warm up to people ...
Shy and Awkward have become my two least favourite words having heard them constantly together. I hate how being shy is seen as such a bad thing for a lot of people. I feel like people prefer outgoing people and find them more interesting.
Does anyone else find small talk extremely difficult sometimes? I just, I dunno. Some people I can just open up to easily, while others, for some reason, I get terrified of. I've been working all summer and met some new people, but I feel third wheeled (by the two girls when it's just us three) or left out because I am too afraid to participate in a conversation. There's this one guy we hang out with... for some reason I,ve always felt nervous around him... but like he's a pretty nice guy and a funny one, but for whatever reason we just never really connected. I feel bad because I know he doesn't really like me in general, and I feel like it's because I'm so shy and a lot of people don't get that we're not actually snotty, just nervous.
I just feel like making friends is really hard, no matter how much I try or how positive an attitude I try to maintain. I wish I didn't need so much time to warm up to people ...
Shy and Awkward have become my two least favourite words having heard them constantly together. I hate how being shy is seen as such a bad thing for a lot of people. I feel like people prefer outgoing people and find them more interesting.