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Post by putter65 on Sept 7, 2011 15:47:24 GMT -5
Crazy day !
First this woman I know tried to set me up with her next door neighbour. That's never happened to me before. I added her onto my facebook and sent her a few messages. I am very cautious about anything 'blind date' - don't like it when women get heavy without even knowing or meeting me. Don't believe it's real so I'm going to go slow with this.
Next the flirty woman. She started complaining about her life, saying she is in a rut and fed up. Well I'm off work next week so I suggested we do something together. She said 'yes' - So I told her to give me her mobile number before I leave work. We chatted as normal after that but she made no effort to give me her number. At one point she was messing about with her mobile number in front of me and had a perfect opportunity to give me her number but she didn't. When it was time to go I went home. I guess she wasn't comfortable giving me her number. Not hurt or upset, more thinking 'her loss' - won't see her again for 2 weeks (hopefully !)
On my way home, saw an old female friend. Not spoken to her for nearly 2 years now. She waved and smiled so I waved back. She was in her car. Really want to talk to her but don't have her mobile. Real shame we have lost touch with each other. She knows where i work and it's close to her house. Why she hasn't come in for a chat I don't know ?
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Post by yogurt on Sept 7, 2011 17:59:31 GMT -5
maybe she's buisy. maybe she hasn't thought about it-you said it was two years. If you want to hang out with someone or possibly date a girl maybe it should be someone you see every day and don't like? That way it could just be haning out if you ever did go on a date or something and you could be yourself and wouldn't feel stressed. Lately I myself have been over board self-absorbed. There's a joy of feeling concerned about something-a pet, family member, friend, growing a plant-waiting for it to bloom-, that comes with being a well rounded individual. Everything feels so chaotic or usless until you turn around and meet the tornado beside you. Knowing about other people relieves the stress on you because you aren't thinking about little old you anymore. I'm accusing you of being self absorbed even though I don't really know you-I might be wrong -sue me. But if you aren't trying it now...try it. Pick something in your life you woun't complain at or be moody around if you haven't already. Feel free to bicker at me for this SNOOTY message. And if you do find something write about it in the diary.
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Post by putter65 on Sept 8, 2011 10:24:30 GMT -5
No I'm not going to bicker at you, you can write what you want. This diary is about women. I do have plenty of other hobbies.
This woman is married and we were just friends. For over 8 years though and it's disapointing She hasn't made any effort to speak to me in nearly 2 years. I sent her a xmas card that didn't get returned. I thought 'that's it' ! - I've seen her twice recently and she has smiled and waved at me. Hopefully I will bump into her when she's not in her car and we can have a chat !
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Post by putter65 on Sept 10, 2011 7:14:51 GMT -5
Talking to a friend of golf woman today. She told me golf woman said she 'loved playing golf with me !' - so that's nice !
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Post by putter65 on Sept 14, 2011 9:12:17 GMT -5
I'm on holiday from work this week. Got a text today from golf woman asking me to work in her shop. I replied saying 'no' - didn't fancy it, enjoying my week off too much !
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Post by putter65 on Sept 18, 2011 3:04:56 GMT -5
Worked with the golf woman yesterday. She nagged me into it. I don't normally work nights. She has this hold on me were it's hard to say 'no' to her. Chatted with her yesterday quiet alot and she's been having these problems at work. She was getting upset and for a moment I thought she would start to cry. I'm not a touchy person but I would have held her to comfort her.
Apart from been beautiful, she is so charming and lovely.
We chatted a bit about friends and keeping in touch and she said she is always the one to get in touch with people and when she doesn't, they don't bother. I pointed out that I wasn't like this, in fact I'm the one who always gets in touch with her. She gets in touch with me when she wants something ; eg overtime. I can imagine alot of her male friends really have crushes on her and maybe they have the hump because she has this new romance in her life. I didn't tell her this.
I mentioned flirty woman to her, about her not giving me her number and she suggested she forgot. Doubt it myself.
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Post by Karen on Sept 18, 2011 11:30:14 GMT -5
I pointed out that I wasn't like this, in fact I'm the one who always gets in touch with her. She gets in touch with me when she wants something ; eg overtime. I hope she doesn't only get in touch with you when she wants something.
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Post by putter65 on Sept 18, 2011 13:18:26 GMT -5
No, we played golf together a couple of weeks ago. It was her idea and she asked me. She's on about playing again as well.
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Post by putter65 on Sept 18, 2011 14:48:00 GMT -5
The woman I've added to my facebook page, she is coming into my shop on Saturday to meet me. She has been very chatty on facebook in the last week or so.
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Post by putter65 on Sept 21, 2011 15:56:44 GMT -5
Saw Golf woman again today. She rang me up and I ended up going from my workplace to hers. Really long cycle ride, major pain in the arse really. But it broke up the day I suppose. While she was on the phone she mentioned playing golf again. It's like I do her favours by working in her shop and putting myself out and my reward is her playing golf with me. I never mention playing first, she always brings it up.
At her shop, I talked about the golf and she said she didn't know when she could play. She would look at the rota and get back to me. She didn't but when she was leaving she said she would send me a text about it. No text yet. No that bothered, I know she is busy. Golf is fun but it's hard when we both work alot of hours. I'm working with her again on Friday, so we'll see if she mentions playing.
I'm doing her all these favours and people at my workplace think I'm mad. They must talk behind my back. I say I feel sorry for her; which I do. It's like she has a spell on me. She always has. I find it hard to say 'no' to her. When she asks me to work in her shop, I say 'yes' because I like to be around her. She is beautiful. I like looking at her. She is so lovely to talk to as well. I just enjoy her company. She makes me happy, brightens up my day. I think she does that to alot of people !
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Post by putter65 on Sept 22, 2011 13:04:07 GMT -5
Got a couple of good days coming up.
Tommorrow - working in golf womans shop, hopefully we will arrange another golf game
Saturday - the new friend from facebook is coming into my shop to say 'hello' and meet me.
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Post by putter65 on Sept 24, 2011 14:14:35 GMT -5
Playing golf with golf woman on Monday
Going out with facebook woman next Saturday !
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Post by putter65 on Sept 25, 2011 13:23:45 GMT -5
Well the golf woman cancelled again saying she had flu. I killed myself last week helping her out. Well not any more, sod that, doing favours all the time. I think I will have flu next time she asks me help her out !
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Post by Sweet Pea on Sept 25, 2011 13:25:47 GMT -5
Well the golf woman cancelled again saying she had flu. I killed myself last week helping her out. Well not any more, sod that, doing favours all the time. I think I will have flu next time she asks me help her out ! nice to see you're coming to your senses...i think.
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Post by putter65 on Sept 26, 2011 1:54:08 GMT -5
Well last Wednesday was a joke ! I was supposed to work 8 to 4 in my shop. She rings up from her shop and asks me if I can help her out and work 3 to 6. She said my manager would let me go at 2. So I said 'yes'. I left at 2 from my shop, walked to the golf course to get my bike, that took 20 minutes, and then rode to her shop which is 6 miles away. It was head wind, my bike isn't great, it was hell. Just got there it time. And all that was for 1 hours extra pay ! Crazy ! She says 'thanks' and 'your a star' etc but when I helped her out on Friday afternoon she barely spoke really. Taking me for granted I think. If I hadn't have been there on Friday, her shop would have struggled big style, there was no staff. So when I left I said 'bye, speak soon' and she said 'thanks' again and then started talking about playing golf. So she looks on this rota for this week and asks me about Monday. I say it's fine. Anyway yesterday I send her a text saying where we are going to meet. She replies 2 hours later she has flu and isn't feeling well. I don't think she is lying by the way but on the other hand she isn't putting herself out much. Anyway if she texts me or rings me up about doing extra at her shop this week I will say 'no' - just not worth it. The facebook friend is going okay and we are seeing each other on Saturday. The mutual friend who introduced us was chatting away like crazy to me on facebook last night. I think she thinks I won't be able to handle a 'date' and get too nervous. I think I will be fine !
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