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Post by putter65 on Oct 17, 2011 9:35:21 GMT -5
New woman wants to meet up on Friday. So that is very promising.
Golf woman - not heard from her which isn't a suprize. Since she only sent me texts when she wanted me to work for her.
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Post by putter65 on Oct 26, 2011 3:40:09 GMT -5
update : Golf woman as come back, chatting on facebook. Got offended when I was a bit distant with her, wants to play golf, wants to meet up for coffee on Friday
Flirty woman - just won't ask me anywhere even though it's obvious she likes me. She goes around and around in circles almost asking me.
New Woman - went out with yesterday for the second time. She is unhappy at the moment and it wasn't great. She did say she wanted to see me again. The mutual friend rang me up after and said this woman had seen another man after seeing me and she slept with him.
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Post by putter65 on Oct 27, 2011 16:01:17 GMT -5
It's funny how things change. I'm supposed to seeing golf woman tommorrow for coffee. A few months ago I would be like a nervous wreck now but now I am hardly bothered. It's not on my mind that much and if she doesn't turn up or cancels then so be it.
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Post by putter65 on Oct 28, 2011 4:34:14 GMT -5
Coffee with golf woman was nice enough. I told her all about my dates with the other woman. She told me she met her fella on a dating site. I think it's a proper friendship now, I'm not in love with her anymore which is good.
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Post by putter65 on Oct 30, 2011 2:52:04 GMT -5
Went on a night out with some work colleagues last night. Found out golf woman was screwing the married boss. (Well he got spotted visiting her house during the day which I think clinces it )
So glad I'm over her and I don't give a toss. Seems such a waste of time and effort thinking about for so long.
This woman I'm seeing wants to see me again on Friday. I said 'yes', I will see how it goes. She said 'sorry' about her bad mood on Tuesday so hopefully this date will be better. Not sure how I feel about what I got told. We will have to see !
Flirty woman was out last night and I walked her home, had a nice chat but she never even suggested meeting up, not even for a coffee. My work colleagues call her 'my bird' - she just isn't interested or she would say.
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Post by putter65 on Nov 5, 2011 12:33:44 GMT -5
New woman backed out of the date, she was ill and had to goto the doctors. Not sure if it's the truth, facebook tells you so much. She could be away for the weekend getting screwed by her other fella. What am I ? Some kind of reserve ?
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Post by putter65 on Nov 9, 2011 16:25:05 GMT -5
The new woman wrote me a nice message yesterday on facebook so I wrote one back. It was as nice as I could make it. Told her how nice it was to meet her, told her I'm glad we are friends.
Anyway she hasn't replied to it and she has been on facebook. I knew it was too much. All I am is just some poor twat to string along while she's getting screwed by the other guy. I know it. Everybody I've spoken to about this has said 'don't bother' - I don't think I will.
The golf woman is a slag - I don't want anything to do with her. There is only the flirty woman now. People at work want me to ask her out. I probably will. (Even though she has ignored my last text !)
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Post by putter65 on Nov 13, 2011 9:46:07 GMT -5
Not alot to report, suppose I'm friends with the new woman. I saw first 6 weeks ago and I've only seen her once since and that was for an hour. Not massively bothered because she was very grumpy when I saw her for the second time. Add to that she is seeing other guys as well and sleeping with them. It doesn't do me any harm I suppose sending the odd text to her. She always replies and is nice enough. I know she has alot of problems at the moment. Maybe she will get her life sorted and want to go out ? If she asks I will go, I won't be asking her though, don't like her that much.
Flirty woman hasn't replied to my last 2 texts, not sure what is wrong.
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Post by putter65 on Nov 13, 2011 15:09:09 GMT -5
Officially ending it with the new woman. I won't be going out with her again; even if she asks. I'm not playing reserve to some grey haired bloke. Going to leave her alone for a week and see what happens, no texts or anything on facebook. Hopefully she will go away and not bother me.
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Post by putter65 on Nov 14, 2011 16:48:43 GMT -5
mmm - she sends me a text so I wait a few hours, then I answer with as little as I could. She then rings me up. We have a chat which is basically her moaning about everything. She then goes on facebook and sends me a message 'thanks for been a good friend' - and then starts sending me songs (all with a romantic flavour) to my facebook wall.
Pretty sure it's all just to make the other guy jealous. She is playing us both against each other. Well I'm not playing, he can have her.
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Post by putter65 on Nov 21, 2011 9:35:39 GMT -5
Maybe not ?
New woman has got really interested this last week. She invited me to her house on Thursday night. The mutual friend who introduced us was there and she kept dropping hints about me asking her out. When the other woman had gone, I kissed her and she looked so happy. I saw her on Saturday, it was okay. She is hard work and can be rude and snappy. But she is thoughtfull and caring.
I'm just seeing how it goes and trying not to get too serious.
Strange having a girlfriend. She doesn't pay me many compliments and we havent had any heavy chats or anything. 'Take care' is about it. I know when she asked me for coffee, I didn't have my mobile on me and she stressed all day that I wasn't interested.
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Post by putter65 on Dec 4, 2011 16:31:11 GMT -5
Getting all 'lovey dovey' with her. It's nice.
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Post by putter65 on Dec 17, 2011 15:50:01 GMT -5
Well I think I can call her my girlfriend now. She's met my parents and I have met her Mother. Only seen her once in 10 days though, it's hard to arrange things when she has kids and work. She's been a bit cool tonight, no texts. She did mention meeting up tommorrow. So lets see !
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Post by Karen on Dec 17, 2011 16:09:52 GMT -5
^Congrats Putter, I hope everything works out well for you.
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Post by ura on Dec 17, 2011 19:52:55 GMT -5
Congrats putter, it's good to see some success come your way.
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