I feel so down, so horrible. I'm thinking was the golf meeting worth it ? I could have said 'no' to her. It has just made things worse. Even though I should think back about it and enjoy the memories of it.
nothings happened today. Another day goes by. If she came on facebook and typed something I could add a message or 'like' it but she hasn't. Whether she is ill or something is wrong I don't know. I don't think she has a problem with me because she would have deleted me off her facebook and she hasn't.
Well it's 10 days without contact and 6 days since she made a comment on facebook. So frustrating ! I still can't believe it's just me. If it was me she would have deleted me from facebook and carried on using it. She's done this to loads of men.
It's what I've always feared. I don't worry a woman is going to hate me or tell me she does. I worry she forgets about me. That's what bothers me the most. I mean nothing to people. Anyway I'm keeping up appearances on facebook typing jovial things. What are the possibilites ?
1. She's met some bloke and spending all her time with him ? Not sure because she has had men before and it's not stopped her using facebook.
2. She is ill or one of her family is ?
3. She is depressed again.
4. She is teasing me
5. She is upset with me because I didn't make a move on her at the golf course. Or for some other reason.
She was chatty with me after the golf thru text messages and facebook. Last time we had contact was Saturday. I messaged her and she took ages to answer but eventually did. I asked if she was working on the Tuesday because I was walking past her shop. She said only for 2 hours so I left it at that. I was going to pop in and see her. I typed in have a nice day and that's it. I've sent 2 texts, both unanswered and 1 facebook message.
I'm baffled. I suppose I'll have to wait until she comes back. It's doing my head in though !
putter I think you are worrying too much about this, she is probably just doing her own thing. From reading your posts, it seems like you are over thinking things a bit. Try not to worry, she will get back to you when she can, and if she doesn't then its best to just move on. We've all been there, its easy to start second guessing everything, but there is no need to put yourself through that.
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you need to find your mojo, hon. you need to adopt the attitude that anyone who isn't into you has bad taste. you're a moving target. if someone wants you, they're gonna have to chase you down cuz you got places to be and things to do. you are NOT the type to sit around mooning over somebody who doesn't make time for you. you hear what i'm sayin?
Oh yes I know I should move on. It just annoys me that after a great experience on the golf course, within 2 weeks there is nothing. I don't expect much, just a few updates on facebook would do. All I'm interested in is keeping in touch. I hate it when interesting, funny people leave my life. I just get lonely. I try to talk to others but the conversations are nowhere near as good.
I'm not really moping about, I'm trying to keep active doing what I normally do.
A little bit of info from someone at work. She said she had sent a text to my crush about this night out and not got a reply. Crushie had said she was going to the night out as well. And this friend had received a text from crushie inviting her to a girly night out in April.
So I wasn't the only one who she ignored. And I'm glad she's inviting her friends out which suggests she's back to normal.