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Post by putter65 on Mar 24, 2011 12:22:54 GMT -5
After the golf meeting I was wondering what would happen. And the Worst-case scenario has. No contact. I know it's only 2 weeks but there was me thinking our friendship would grow a bit once we met up for the first time. Just disapointed. I hope she gets in touch soon.
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Post by putter65 on Mar 24, 2011 12:24:47 GMT -5
After the golf meeting I was wondering what would happen and the Worst-case scenario has. That is what's so dispointing. Since we got on so well and she seemed to enjoy herself. There was me thinking our friendship would grow when we met up for the first time. I hope she gets in touch soon.
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Post by putter65 on Mar 25, 2011 11:31:38 GMT -5
She worked at my shop last night (I wasn't there !) She didn't think of mentioning it !
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Post by putter65 on Mar 25, 2011 14:58:25 GMT -5
My plan is to send texts every week or so. If she replies then great, if she doesn't then her not replying will hurt less and less until a time comes when I can't be bothered to text anymore.
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Post by putter65 on Mar 26, 2011 9:33:57 GMT -5
Nothing to report. No contact for 2 weeks. She did make a comment on facebook. I didn't make one myself even though one guy did. The one good thing is she hasn't deleted me from facebook so she isn't mad at me. She just seems to have forgotton about me and has ignored 3 of my messages for some reason.
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Post by putter65 on Mar 27, 2011 8:32:06 GMT -5
Another day goes by. Planning to send a text on Tuesday. Just a 'how are you' one. Not really expecting a reply. My fall from grace has been amazing. Without me knowing what I did wrong.
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Post by putter65 on Mar 28, 2011 3:25:30 GMT -5
Sent her a text this morning. It was just a catch up text. Put a few things about myself and asked her how she was. Mentioned that I hadn't heard from her for awhile but wondered if she was ill or not. Not expecting a reply.
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Post by putter65 on Mar 28, 2011 9:14:41 GMT -5
Got a reply. She said she has been busy. It was a nice text message.
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Post by putter65 on Mar 28, 2011 15:02:18 GMT -5
So feeling okay about things. Never really thought she wanted to be my girlfriend but can't have everything I suppose.
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Post by putter65 on Mar 30, 2011 1:08:34 GMT -5
funny really because the text I got seemed to indicate 'the end' for me rather than the other way round. I think the golf meeting looks like it was a one off. Oh well. I've always thought about women, they either pay you attention or they don't. Your either in or out.
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Post by putter65 on Mar 30, 2011 10:31:01 GMT -5
People at work always mention her though. Everyday it seems. Somebody asked me if I had played golf with her again so I said 'no' - she then asked if we are still in touch - so I said 'yes'- they always ask with a defensive look on their faces, it's like they know it's not a subject I like talking about.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 2, 2011 10:40:42 GMT -5
All gone quiet. I knew this would happen by the way. Women lose interest in me, it always happens. Suppose I could still send my weekly text and pretend I've got a friend.
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Post by Karen on Apr 2, 2011 16:15:54 GMT -5
pretend I've got a friend. You've got friends in us. Keep your chin up Putter
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Post by putter65 on Apr 3, 2011 2:31:23 GMT -5
aw bless you Karen !
Women have always puzzled me. For no reason they pay me loads of attention and they quickly forget about me. It's always sad when women I like leave my workplace. They always say 'keep in touch' - hardly any of them do. I suppose with facebook, I can in a way. And I've got her number.
When we met up at golf, I thought at the worst it would increase our friendship. I never let myself think she would like me romantically. And when we had a great time together, I thought it was the start of a closer friendship. Yet I've hardly heard from her since even though she seemed to enjoy herself and said 'see u soon' - I know it's only been 3 weeks and she said she has been busy. - I hope she comes back and we see each other again.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 3, 2011 2:58:33 GMT -5
What I find disapointing is when she asked me about the golf, it was her idea, I could have easily jumped to conclusions and thought it was a real date. I could have asked her out on a romantic date or made a play for her. I didn't do any of these things. I acted like a perfect gent, told her I enjoyed it and said 'we'll have to do this again' - And now she has gone a bit cool on me and I'm thinking 'is it because she thought I was getting ideas ?' but what did she expect ? She asked me to the golf, I would never have thought of asking her. She had never stepped on a golf course before in her life. I thought I acted perfectly yet there is a coolness from her. Just little things like she hasn't replied to any of my messages on facebook, never 'liked' them, nothing like that. I just find the whole thing a bit strange. Yet if she was really upset with me she would have deleted me from her friends and she hasn't done that !
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