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Post by putter65 on Apr 4, 2011 16:18:33 GMT -5
She's not interacting with me on facebook. Not one message or anything. I chat with loads of people on there. Don't know if it's on purpose or not. She never did interact that much on facebook. I have noticed she has deleted alot of men off her friends list so I haven't got the chop yet. Maybe it's just indifference on her part. I might send a text in a couple of weeks.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 5, 2011 5:47:41 GMT -5
Just sent a text, might as well. Alot of people don't answer my texts or facebook messages. That's not going to stop me though. I like been nice to people, especially her so I will continue sending her texts until she tells me to stop. I only send 1 a week, if that, so I'm not harrassing her or anything.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 5, 2011 16:11:00 GMT -5
No reply but not bothered. God this woman on this other forum seriously doing my head in. Getting on my nerves, just blocked her. I think she deserved it !
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Post by Karen on Apr 5, 2011 16:27:25 GMT -5
God this woman on this other forum seriously doing my head in. Getting on my nerves, just blocked her. I think she deserved it ! Why? What happened?
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Post by putter65 on Apr 6, 2011 11:01:54 GMT -5
Long story short if I can. She sends me a few private messages on the forum so I suggest that we become facebook friends. We do. She then bombards me with texts, messages, within hours she wants to meet me, goto the cinema. Next day she starts arranging me going to see her. On the night, I get a bit worried so I send a text to my brother and he says 'don't go there, stay away' - I have no idea what she looks like, who she is, nothing about her.
So next day I send a message saying 'i don't want to chat with her today, too tired' - when I get in from work she has deleted me from facebook and deleted her account. I receive a message on the forum saying she doesn't want to see me anymore because she wouldn't feel safe. I say 'fair enough, no hard feelings' - a few weeks go by and she send a crazy message. Saying she's been having dreams about me and in these dreams we met up and I was dressed as the grim reaper and didn't have a face. And I was trying to murder her. I didn't answer this message so she sent 4 really desperate sounding messages begging me to reply to her and not to leave the forum. So I sent an half hearted reply and since then she has started to get a bit abusive, picky towards me so I've blocked her.
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Post by Karen on Apr 6, 2011 11:19:26 GMT -5
hmmm, strange
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Post by putter65 on Apr 6, 2011 14:39:47 GMT -5
Yes, especially the Grim Reaper bit
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Post by putter65 on Apr 6, 2011 14:49:24 GMT -5
Still ignoring me on facebook. Can't help thinking it's all on purpose. I did something wrong, what ? I have no idea ? - I chat with everybody and I send messages to everybody. I'm treating her exactly the same as everybody else. Yet there is nothing from her. So strange !
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Post by Sweet Pea on Apr 6, 2011 20:13:01 GMT -5
Long story short if I can. She sends me a few private messages on the forum so I suggest that we become facebook friends. We do. She then bombards me with texts, messages, within hours she wants to meet me, goto the cinema. Next day she starts arranging me going to see her. On the night, I get a bit worried so I send a text to my brother and he says 'don't go there, stay away' - I have no idea what she looks like, who she is, nothing about her. So next day I send a message saying 'i don't want to chat with her today, too tired' - when I get in from work she has deleted me from facebook and deleted her account. I receive a message on the forum saying she doesn't want to see me anymore because she wouldn't feel safe. I say 'fair enough, no hard feelings' - a few weeks go by and she send a crazy message. Saying she's been having dreams about me and in these dreams we met up and I was dressed as the grim reaper and didn't have a face. And I was trying to murder her. I didn't answer this message so she sent 4 really desperate sounding messages begging me to reply to her and not to leave the forum. So I sent an half hearted reply and since then she has started to get a bit abusive, picky towards me so I've blocked her. well...i guess THAT didn't go very well did it?
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Post by Sweet Pea on Apr 6, 2011 20:14:18 GMT -5
Still ignoring me on facebook. Can't help thinking it's all on purpose. I did something wrong, what ? I have no idea ? - I chat with everybody and I send messages to everybody. I'm treating her exactly the same as everybody else. Yet there is nothing from her. So strange ! maybe it's BECAUSE you're treating her exactly the same as everybody else.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 7, 2011 9:42:16 GMT -5
She's just done a mass clear out on facebook, deleted roughly 50% of her friends. I survived. I'm really surprized, glad, proves I haven't done anything wrong or got on her nerves. Not sure what's going to happen next though.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 8, 2011 15:19:33 GMT -5
She's come back. Said 'sorry' for not answering my last text message. Said 'thanks' for listening to her when she was depressed. Wants to play golf again. We had a really nice chat on facebook. Glad really, very glad. Not sure why she disapeared for a month. She did say she'd had a few beers before she started chatting with me so maybe some dutch courage ?
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Post by kesele on Apr 9, 2011 19:59:32 GMT -5
putter - if this is all about the same woman you met at work, it seems like she is playing games with you, or has some issues to sort out. i think you should just be friends and create some distance.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 10, 2011 9:47:34 GMT -5
Yes, she's now in a relationship according to her facebook, back with some old flame she's split up with about a dozen times. I was always planning on keeping my distance, maybe sending the odd text, and not interacting with her on facebook unless she initates it.
It doesn't hurt anymore, I think I'm over her now. Facebook is a problem because I should really delete her but it is a good way of keeping in touch.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 10, 2011 12:45:20 GMT -5
Seems her 'be nice to me for 5 minutes' and her annoucement on facebook are kind of linked. Seems too much of a coincedance. Does she think I have this massive crush on her ? So she said those nice words so I wouldn't get too upset when she's wrote about getting back with someone ? I think so. That's all I get really. Symphathy from women. Nothing much else. Oh well, it's not like it's not happened before. I just expect it.
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