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Post by putter65 on Apr 10, 2011 18:01:38 GMT -5
My last forum, that I'm using. People argue so much. This place is so much better !
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Post by putter65 on Apr 11, 2011 13:35:30 GMT -5
Chatted again with her on facebook. She initiated it. Nice chat. Funny how the less I am bothered, the more attention I get from her.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 13, 2011 14:35:12 GMT -5
Happier about things this week. My current guidelines seem to be helping me.
I only interact with her on Facebook if she initiates it. Before I was typing messages after everything she did and 'liking' everything. I don't think this did me any good. Now I keep it to a minimum.
I'm planning on sending a text every 2 or 3 weeks, just enough to show I care. I prefer to like someone from afar.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 14, 2011 15:33:30 GMT -5
She's getting loads of comments on her facebook, all sorts of rubbish from other blokes. Seems to be a competition of sorts to get her attention. Me been me, I'm keeping out of it. Keeping very low key, out of the way, like in real life. I don't complete with others for women's attention. I never have. I will do my own little thing in a few days. Probably send her a text saying 'Happy Easter'
On another note, I can't seem to go a day at work without somebody mentioning her. She's been gone for 3 months as well.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 16, 2011 14:43:36 GMT -5
This woman is always mentioning her. First question is 'Have you played golf together again ?' - my answer is 'no' - then she says 'your still in touch aren't you ?' - so I answer 'yes'
I actually talked about her a bit. Told this woman about the xmas present I bought her. The makeup experience. Told this woman that I got stressed about it and that this woman had bought me a golf set. She didn't know so my crush had kept it quiet. Maybe she was too embarrassed to mention it ? Maybe she was embarrassed that I liked her ?
Don't know but after nearly 4 months I thought it was safe to mention it. It's probably got passed all around the shop but I don't care. I don't see what I did wrong. A woman told me she was buying me a xmas present so I bought her one. No big deal. This woman was very impressed, thought it was a great present.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 16, 2011 16:25:12 GMT -5
She's not facebook friends with that guy anymore. She's deleted him. So she got back with him for all of a week. Crazy stuff !
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Post by putter65 on Apr 17, 2011 15:15:12 GMT -5
I know I will never say this to her but I feel like saying -'look all these blokes who you give a chance to and they blow it. None of them are as nice as me. I'm your best bet, I will make you happy. You won't meet a nicer man than me. Give me a chance !'
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Post by putter65 on Apr 21, 2011 10:55:26 GMT -5
Just sent her a text wishing all the best for the holidays. Happy with it, I haven't put any questions in there so I'm not expecting a reply. First text in 2 and half weeks.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 22, 2011 9:29:20 GMT -5
No reply as yet but not that bothered to be honest. I don't think answering texts is that important anyway. Like all women, you have just got to wait until they show up.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 24, 2011 14:40:09 GMT -5
all gone quiet again. Not as bothered as I used to be. She'll go down in my history as my biggest crush, the nicest woman I have ever met and the nicest a woman as ever been to me.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 25, 2011 15:52:58 GMT -5
Spent alot of today thinking about her. I worked with her for 18 months. For the first six, I hardly talked to her. She was very quiet. Then I got to know her slowly. I miss everything, the times when I asked her how she was, the lovely chats we had, the way she said 'hello David' in the morning. Sigh !
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Post by putter65 on Apr 26, 2011 5:03:40 GMT -5
She sent a message on facebook to me thru the night. Just about golf. At least she hasn't totally forgotten about me.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 26, 2011 15:30:13 GMT -5
More messages about golf, she wants to play again soon !
Good !
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Post by putter65 on Apr 30, 2011 7:28:50 GMT -5
More messages on facebook. Interesting she's doing it now and not a week after we played golf.
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Post by putter65 on May 2, 2011 16:04:02 GMT -5
It's nearly 2 months since I saw her. I think about her everyday. She's paying me more attention on facebook than usual. 'Liking' my comments etc. Hopefully this second golf game will come off. I am missing her something rotten !
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