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Post by Grayback on Feb 18, 2011 12:23:38 GMT -5
My most recent crush was... in middle school, so it was a very long time ago ;D. She was quite direct with me, telling me I didn't stand a chance of going out with her.
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revai
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Post by revai on Mar 4, 2011 15:47:02 GMT -5
My most recent crush was... in middle school, so it was a very long time ago ;D. She was quite direct with me, telling me I didn't stand a chance of going out with her. Same. My first and only major crush (I had lesser ones later) lasted from year 6-8 of middle school, then afterwards I moved towns. My self-esteem was stupidly low back then, so I didn't really care when I found out she had a 'BF' cause there was 'never a slight chance in the first place' according to me
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Post by gals on Apr 2, 2011 7:54:01 GMT -5
so who's nursing a monster crush...you know...one of those agony-n-ecstacy self-torturing exercises where you're totally stuck on one person and can't seem to let it go? and if you are, what have you done about it so far? well, don't we all? LOL I think at certain points in our lives we tend to have those painful crushes, that one-sided unrequited love with whom quite unattainable. Oh I have so many of those But I was lucky that 1 of them actually like me back and ended up my then-bf
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Post by brightestdark on May 9, 2011 7:24:28 GMT -5
I still like the guy I first joined this forum because of, a couple years ago. He lives in a different country but was just in my country again the other week so I ran into him. He came over to me to say hi etc, then when a band was playing (it was at a venue), he was stood by me for a while, and turned to me to say something about the band. At the end when it was time to go I asked for a hug and then as we let go he somehow ended up holding my hand, and said something else to me about trying to stay in touch (he is LAME at emailing, and I actually brought this up as he'd not replied to a couple of my emails).
I think I'm gonna post a new thread... as I want to ask a question... but I'm kinda bummed/confused at the moment. He replied to one email and then I wrote back and he's not emailed again. I don't get how he can be so nice in person but then so lame at replying to emails. Maybe he's not interested at all... and was just trying to be friendly... but... meh.
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Post by rosesc on May 21, 2011 0:13:09 GMT -5
that's me right now.. i haven't done anything. -_-" i just let my feelings rot until they're gone, because i know it's impossible to be with him. he has high standards, and i know myself well enough to know that he's out of my league. anyway... i just let time do the crushing and healing. it works like magic every time.
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Post by Zoe on Sept 18, 2011 6:44:27 GMT -5
I had a crush on my wing chun instructor who is the same age as me. I went on holidays to NZ and brought a cool back pack as a gift for him, he added me on face book which is where i found out that he established a relationship with someone else a week before i left on holidays. I still see him every week and each time he gives me a compliment he needs to add "please don't take this the wrong way" just in case i misinterpret it as signals of interest .... oh the awkwardness.......
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Post by dumpling on Nov 24, 2011 1:44:33 GMT -5
It's very difficult for me to have a crush on someone for any longer than like 1 month or less. Once I get past my initial obsession with that person it's over. I just can't like someone who doesn't like me and most of the crushes I have are guys that don't know me well (no guy knows me well because I can never get a guy to talk to me).
So for now my current crush is a singer. It's safer for me to have a crush on a famous person because I can like them for a longer amount of time and it doesn't feel as bad because they don't even know I exist and it's not possible for them to return my feelings. It's just my way of coping...as unhealthy as it may seem.
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Post by jenls76 on Jul 9, 2012 21:53:01 GMT -5
I am stuck on a guy I worked with ten years ago! ;(
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Post by residentweevil on Jul 27, 2012 8:51:21 GMT -5
I've been dreaming about my ex almost every night lately. (Love stuff; not sex stuff) I thought I was over her but she keeps haunting me! X'0 She's smart, funny, pretty (even though she doesn't think so), easy-going, and totally broken (SUPER shy) and I always just wanted to pick her up and fix her somehow. (She's about my age. Not pedo. 0_0)
But romantically, she's moved on, has a new boyfriend, seems happy, and geographically, is now far far away, so I'm not going to try to rekindle anything. It was a bad breakup (at least for me) and I don't want to go through that again, but I've learned from it. I know what mistakes I made.
The problem is that what has been rekindled is the friendship we had. Because we're both shy people, we get along. So we still talk online and I don't want to lose her as a friend. Yet that keeps her in my life and maybe hinders me from moving on too.
I'm NOT asking for advice. I know I just need to be a man and tough it out. I just felt it needed to be said out loud at least once. This also qualifies for the "secrets" topic that's also on this message board somewhere.
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