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Post by peterseter3 on Apr 27, 2011 23:01:12 GMT -5
Phones and emails. well i don't hate them but
it's easy to make mistakes or something and then you lose friends.
I made a friend in the street, she was awweeeesome. friendly/cute and beautiful and we agreed to hangout and do stuff together and meet and learn from eachother.
I gave her my mail and phone.
it's been 2 days after and she hasn't emailed or nothing. I don't think it's that she hated me, she was actaly really happy and excited cause she was a foreigner and was soo happy to finally make american friend.
But it's all over just cause i possibly made a mistake when writing my email and phone .
that sucks.
PS. the only thing that can save this possibly(i don't really know if it can)
is that she told me and i remember the name of the school she goes to and it's a small school for foreigners studying in america.
So i could go there and search for her. Although i don't know if thats good to do.
She also has a facebook page, i dno't know her facebook name or nothing but i searched and did some reserach and i kinda found someone that looks like her.(but i don't even know cause i don't even remember her face well)
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Post by putter65 on May 3, 2011 6:53:16 GMT -5
You should have asked for her email address or number.
She hasn't got in touch because she's either forgotten or had second thoughts.
Your very brave trying to meet people like this. I would never do it. Have you tried working in retail ? I do that and it's a great way to meet people. I don't really have friends but I have about a million people who I say 'hi' too. And then we have a little chat about things. It's actually one of the best parts of my job.
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Post by peterseter3 on May 3, 2011 9:07:43 GMT -5
Many of these girls just lie. That's what i think. They say they want to be friends, but they just lie .
I did this a while ago too and i did get a real friend out of it.
Then i did it a few weeks ago, i got another one. and i did get her number. But she seems like a busy student and doesn't answer me. I think i'll have to forget about her too
I didn't get this girl's number cause she was gonna take the bus so she didn't have time and she said "I'll write my info when i send you mail" possibly a lie i'm guessing. Maybe she knew from the beginning that she didn't want to contact me.
But what a great lie, if it was that. Cause she was soooo excited talking to me and was really happy and said "Oh great. i want american friend"
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Post by putter65 on May 3, 2011 14:40:19 GMT -5
Maybe these women are just been polite. They don't want to be nasty to you. It's very tough finding friends this way. That's why I would never do it. Most of my friends are from work or thru hobbies I do.
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Post by peterseter3 on May 3, 2011 22:17:47 GMT -5
well that sucks. And the dumb facebook doesn't work either.
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Post by missklew on May 3, 2011 23:40:28 GMT -5
Just wondering if you would have wanted to be friends if they were ugly and fat?
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Post by peterseter3 on May 4, 2011 8:55:51 GMT -5
yes i would be friends with anyone if they were nice.
Anyways, i found out finally, why she didn't respond. She emailed me today and said she has a BF.
It was kind of obvious she would have a BF. cause she was very attractive. most attractive women have BF's already. so there is no point usually in trying to be friends iwth them.
next time i wshould choose a more average girl. there would be more posibility that she would be friend.
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Post by peterseter3 on May 8, 2011 12:16:04 GMT -5
Ok guys i'm back and i have to reiterate how much i hate cellphones.
I found a friend(a different one) sometime ago. She was awesome.
We texted alittle , then she changed her phone number. Now i can't contact her at all.
The phone rings, nobody answers and after like 4 rings, i get a messages saying "I'm sorry but the person you called has a mail box that has not been set up"
I keep getitng that every time i call. and i've trie dcalling for many days
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Post by Scotty on May 8, 2011 14:25:26 GMT -5
It's not really the cell phone's fault though, lol.
How do you know she changed her number? Also if she did change it and didn't bother to tell you, then it's a sign that you should move on. There's no point trying to keep calling her.
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Post by peterseter3 on May 8, 2011 14:34:18 GMT -5
She told me about the change of phone number. But it doesn't work. Well whatever. I'm over her too.
wow, 2 possible friends are now over.
And that dumb facebook too is stupid. nobody responds to stragers . I actually found the girl i just talked about 2 posts above and i messaged her. She hasn't answered and mostlikely never will.
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Post by ura on May 8, 2011 15:16:43 GMT -5
It's not really the cell phone's fault though, lol. How do you know she changed her number? Also if she did change it and didn't bother to tell you, then it's a sign that you should move on. There's no point trying to keep calling her. It sounds like moving on would be the best thing to do also. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on May 8, 2011 15:26:58 GMT -5
She told me about the change of phone number. But it doesn't work. Well whatever. I'm over her too. wow, 2 possible friends are now over. i'm curious how long you had a working phone number for her, and probably other way to contact her as well, yet did not make any attempt to contact her? how long is someone responsible for updating their contact info without you making a move. |
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Post by peterseter3 on May 8, 2011 16:37:58 GMT -5
We met like 2 weeks ago. exchanged numbers. Then over that week we exchanged like 3 messages. i figured she was a busy student so she didn't have time to call. So i let it be.
Then the next day i got a TEXT saying "This is my new number" with a SMile and her full name.
and then over the next week i kept trying to contact her at that phone number but it didn't work. The old number didn't work anymore.
Then yesterday i decided to search in facebook, and yup i found her. and i messaged her and she didn't answer .
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Post by peterseter3 on May 8, 2011 16:42:18 GMT -5
I'm pretty sure i know what's going on with these people. They're foreigners and most foreigners in English schools or in college in America( my city) by the time i meet them they have a bunch of friends already that they met in their schools.
Seems like in Asia girls prefer to and are more comfortable befriending people of a group they belong to( in this case school and classes they take) instead of a random stranger in the street( that being me).
So they lie and say that yes they want to be friends. Well i just wish they wouldn't lie and give me their numbers and stuff. I rather them say "No thanks".
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Post by missklew on May 9, 2011 5:01:07 GMT -5
They tend to stick to their own unless they want something from you, like a green card.
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