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Post by casanova2 on Jun 28, 2011 8:04:32 GMT -5
I was wondering cos i think ive been doing things wrong. Can someone give me an example of what to write in an approach to a woman i like. As i think ive been doing it wrong cos not getting many comeback. I mean should i try and flatter them?
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Post by casanova2 on Jun 28, 2011 13:05:31 GMT -5
I mean is this okay hi how are you? My names casanova im a decent down to earth easy going guy. I feel we have common interests,be nice to have the chance to get to know ya.
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Post by Karen on Jun 28, 2011 13:59:37 GMT -5
I mean is this okay hi how are you? My names casanova im a decent down to earth easy going guy. I feel we have common interests,be nice to have the chance to get to know ya. Perhaps you could let them discover your a "decent down to earth easy going guy" on their own, as they get to know you. I think too much self advertisement isn't really helpful. You might try also stating specifically what those "common interests" are, and a little about why you like x. (x being the common interest). Its possible that if the girl sees you really do share some interests, she would be more willing to get to know you. Good luck!
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Post by casanova2 on Jun 29, 2011 15:19:31 GMT -5
Well im still not sure what to write how about. Hi how are you My name is casanova it seems we have some common interests in music. Would be good if i could get to know ya better.
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Post by Karen on Jun 29, 2011 15:36:40 GMT -5
Sure, why not write that. I think the main thing is to make it personal to the girl you are writing to. The thing to remember is that if a girl is on a dating site, she is probably getting a lot of pms from a lot of guys, most of them pretty generic. So you will stand out more if you make your pm more personal.
Perhaps something like:
"Hi, How are you? My name's Casanova, I couldn't help noticing from your profile that you like the band "The Mars Volta". I thought no one listened to them! I like their song "Eriatarka" in particular. I would love to get to know more about you. ....etc etc etc"
Something like that would show the girl that you have something in common. I think they would be more likely to respond to you if it looks like you are writing specifically to them, and not just mass mailing a hundred different girls at once.
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Post by casanova2 on Jun 29, 2011 15:47:59 GMT -5
Hi how are you? My name's casanova i could'nt help notice from your profile your photo and that you have very pretty eyes and your smile made my day.I would like to get to know ya.
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Post by casanova2 on Jun 29, 2011 15:51:44 GMT -5
Or Hi how are you?My name's casanova i could@'nt help notice from your profile that you like sport in particular Tennis.Do you like to play or watch do you recall the federer v nadal wimbledon final from 2009.One of the best matches ive ever seen,I would like to get to know more about you.
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Post by Karen on Jun 29, 2011 16:01:08 GMT -5
My vote is for the second one. But yeah, something like that. It shows your actually interested in the girl your writing too, not just a girl. Good luck!
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Post by Scotty on Jun 29, 2011 16:01:42 GMT -5
Hi how are you? My name's casanova i could'nt help notice from your profile your photo and that you have very pretty eyes and your smile made my day.I would like to get to know ya. Personally, I would avoid doing this. It implies you're only interested in her appearance. If you feel you need to say that though, just make sure it's not the only thing you mention. The tennis example was better.
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Post by casanova2 on Jun 30, 2011 10:54:40 GMT -5
Well i got emailing a girl and she has'nt got back to me on last email.I asked when she would be online next and left my phone number if she wanted to text.Did i make a mistake?
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Post by Scotty on Jun 30, 2011 15:54:56 GMT -5
How long has it been since you sent it...people are busy and sometimes it can take longer to reply.
How long have you been talking to her and were things going well? It's best not to give out your phone number too early. Get to know them first.
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Post by casanova2 on Jul 1, 2011 1:16:47 GMT -5
About a day but i know shes been online when i tried to chat to her she did'nt respond even though the site said she was online.The reason i gave out my number was as an option with me working shifts it wernt easy to catch her online.I did ask her as well when she would be online next never answered.
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Post by casanova2 on Jul 1, 2011 1:57:18 GMT -5
Is there anything i can do to get this girl chatting again?ive tried to explain in a message but nothing yet.
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Post by Karen on Jul 1, 2011 10:00:51 GMT -5
I don't think there is much you can do. If she doesn't respond to you, she may be busy, or simply uninterested. I would suggest just letting things lay as they are, and let her get in touch with you if she wants.
You've given her your number, and though I'm not sure what you've tried to explain to her in the message, there isn't really much more you can, or need, to do.
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Post by Scotty on Jul 1, 2011 10:20:26 GMT -5
I don't think there is much you can do. If she doesn't respond to you, she may be busy, or simply uninterested. I would suggest just letting things lay as they are, and let her get in touch with you if she wants. ^This. If she doesn't respond, there's nothing you can do, just move on.
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