doing NOTHING on weekends

[blink1]

Its been like 3 weekends since Ive actually done something other than stay inside and sleep or other shit with family but it just makes me feel like such a loser you know?
I have a fair bit of friends but its only once in a while that I'll hear from them. And then all of them ask me what I did on the weekend.....like... I did nothing.. and just saying that makes me feel even worse.
does/has anyone else feel/felt like this???
I actually feel kind of lame posting this but oh well.

[k151]

I'm kinda the same. Even if I do do something, it's just hanging out at a buddy's house and watching a movie or something. It's kinda rare when I actually go out with a bunch of people. I did tonight and got tipsy, so I felt ok. But really I wish I could go out more.

[shytothebone]

I am that way to. Thing is people keep asking me that and I keep telling them nothing . Then they shake their head or ask me why not and I don't really know how to respond to that. Seems like they just don't get it. Also they will never ask me if I want to go or do anything on the weekend with them.

I would like to go out but most of the time it seems like everyone wants to go to clubs to dance and get drunk. I don't dance and I don't drink. Also I'm in apart of the world which that is all there is to do.

[bert]

i just go out with my friend at the weekend, and just hang out, i only get to seem him at weekends so its really nice just to chat, but when i used to have a wide variety of friends, they rarly invited me out anywher i usully had to ask, that was a bit depressing

[zoegonzalez]

This is my weekend - it doesn't bother me most of the time. I entertain myself and have few friends to begin with.

blink1 said:

I have a fair bit of friends but its only once in a while that I'll hear from them. And then all of them ask me what I did on the weekend.....like... I did nothing.. and just saying that makes me feel even worse.
does/has anyone else feel/felt like this???

Do your friends hear from you to make weekend plans? Even if they are busy they'll be glad you wanted to get together with them, remember you and reach out the next time.

[Some Guy]

Yeah I understand what you mean. Since university started back for me my weekends are slighty more interesting though not very. I usually go back home to watch football or go bowling on Saturdays and I go to the cinema on a Friday or something. This weekend is different for me because my friend who lives in my uni flat with me has gone home for the weekend and Im quickly getting very bored here and fed up. I really dont know if I can handle staying in this flat pretty much on my own on a saturday night, at the same time there are other reasons why I dont want to go home this weekend. Last night was good as I went to another flat and had a couple of drinks, then chatted on skype and the phone, but nothing like that is likely to happen tonight.

[Knox]

dude i havent really done anything for like the past 15-20 weekends lol so dont feel bad....

[gSteve]

Apart from a meal with my family about 2 weeks ago, I've only done something at the weekend once or twice in the last 2 years.

[pansy]

I've been making a point of getting out of the house and doing something every weekend because I get so bored with the routine if I don't. Even if I go to a movie alone it helps keep the monotony from getting to me so bad.

[pnoopiepnats]

I enjoy my do nothing after work and weekends.

There was a time when the kids were little, I didn't hardly have a minute to myself. Picking them up and taking them to daycare, then later to lessons or sports practice and their friend's house. Then there was a whole slew of chores that went along with keeping a large home clean and 4 people fed and in clean clothes. crap that makes me want to take a nap just thinking about it.

I think that is how my early rise habit got started. I would get up a couple hours before everyone else just so I could have some peace and quiet and alone time.

So except for going to the store and taking son places sometimes on the weekend, I do nothing and I enjoy it very much.

zzzzzzzzzzzzzz is good. ;D

[wagnerr]

I always work on the weekends, but i do know what you mean.

I never seem to have any time for any real social activity. I'm hoping thi'll change eventually when i don't need two jobs anymore, but for the moment all i ever seem to do in my free time is stay home and watch tv or use the computer.

[shypsychologyguy]

for an entire year I never did anything on weekends unless it was with parents or a school event. Im not sure how I made it through all of that.

yesterday I met two nice girls yet today i did nothing and ive been bored and lonely all day and worse yet the free time is allowing me to think negatively about the night before like i may have screwed up something.

[starwind0079]

I can understand the original poster's sentiment, I'm pretty much the same way. Life isn't really interesting if we don't go out and entertain ourselves every so often, which is why it's depressing to me when I'm at home doing nothing while everyone is out having fun.

[gLoo]

when i feel like im doing nothing i swhen i start to clean or arts and cfraft type stuff. anythign to make me feel like im atleast doing something.

[nameless]

its been rare recently that ive done anythign exciting at the weekend, the annoying things is people at work asking what i did, they seem to want a whole account for the weekend all the time, i just feel its got nothing to do with them!