coco
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Post by coco on Dec 30, 2005 22:04:10 GMT -5
Why can’t there be a club were shy guys can go to and hang out with one another? Then we should hold nights were we advertise for women who dig shy guys to come to it and all we have to do is show up and they will try to pick us up. The only problem with this is that any f**king outgoing rat b@stard of a guy will pretend he is shy just to get women this way but there ought to be a way to be a “certified shy guy” to be allowed in this club. If this type of club exits, it really sounds too good to be true.
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Post by I am Jack's wasted life on Dec 31, 2005 4:55:11 GMT -5
That sounds really awesome! And maybe they could have a shy girls club too  . That'd be great cuz then we'd be surrounded with people who understand us and our shy tendencies. |
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Post by Samantha on Dec 31, 2005 8:18:33 GMT -5
It would be cool although I would prefer a club for shy people rather than just shy guys. There is more to the opposite sex than just dating lol.
Unfortunately shy people aren't usually the best at seizing the initiative and making this sort of thing happen. Those that are best placed to start this sort of thing are probably those that need it least and thus less inclined.
Not sure if it is financially viable either but it is a lovely idea. I've always liked the idea of a shy masons or something. Any excuse to wear a silly hat.
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coco
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Post by coco on Dec 31, 2005 10:43:52 GMT -5
Ok it can be a club for shy guys, shy girls and on some nights, aggressive girls who dig shy guys but no outgoing guys allowed. Those guys seem to be EVERYWHERE.
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Post by lostgirl on Dec 31, 2005 13:39:37 GMT -5
sounds like one boring club...  |
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Post by Naptaq on Dec 31, 2005 13:41:21 GMT -5
good idea coco. hmm now all we need is money.. maybe we should convice some television station to finance this for us and film it? lol
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Post by sushiboat on Dec 31, 2005 14:13:29 GMT -5
sounds like one boring club... I have to agree. Why would women go there? Without the women, the men wouldn't go there. |
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Post by Some Guy on Dec 31, 2005 14:17:48 GMT -5
It is a very cool idea if a little impractical. It would be interesting to see bouncers hurling people out of there because they have too much confidence, hehe.
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Post by Paulinus on Dec 31, 2005 15:06:01 GMT -5
It is a very cool idea if a little impractical. It would be interesting to see bouncers hurling people out of there because they have too much confidence, hehe. I was thinking that, you wouldnt be able to talk too much in case your mistaken for having too much confidence lol. It a nice idea though, I know I find it easiar to converse with others who are also shy. I'm just imagining if it became like a real life version of the shy chatroom now that would be erm..interesting lol  |
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Post by gLoo on Dec 31, 2005 17:39:49 GMT -5
I've always liked the idea of a shy masons or something. Any excuse to wear a silly hat.  umm.. too red for shy people? |
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Post by k151 on Dec 31, 2005 20:13:07 GMT -5
Ok it can be a club for shy guys, shy girls and on some nights, aggressive girls who dig shy guys but no outgoing guys allowed. Those guys seem to be EVERYWHERE. Shy guys blend in with surroundings and outgoing guys stand out, I hate that  I bet there are no more outgoing guys than there are shy guys, it's just so easy to forget shy people, even I, being as shy as I am, tend to forget people that aren't outgoing. It also seems like I NEVER meet a shy girl, perhaps most shy girls just seem to hate me because they are shy? I bet it seems like I hate a lot of people, even if I like them but am just too shy. Then again, I only talk to my friends and family and that is about it. The only way I tell if someone likes me is their body language and maybe the 2 words they say to me. |
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Post by lonelyheart on Dec 31, 2005 20:54:32 GMT -5
Going with shy/aloof people is boring. I went to a 'club' with my 'friends' but I felt all alone because:
1. I repeatedly told them I hated this particular one and that I didn't want to go. I was lead to believe that we weren't going to stay there long and go somewhere else. LIES.
2. When inside, the girls do their own thing and I am not even in existence. Even my mate who is very aloof gets recognition from them. Am I just a piece of turd to you?
I finally convinced my mate to leave and we went elsewhere for a drink.
Nice to know where you stand with your friends.
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Post by lonelyheart on Dec 31, 2005 20:55:55 GMT -5
If you're shy and want a chance to 'pickup' just nudge your way into a group of girls on the dancefloor.
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Post by wagnerr on Jan 1, 2006 1:55:06 GMT -5
If you're shy and want a chance to 'pickup' just nudge your way into a group of girls on the dancefloor. I've done this before. I awkwardly moved around on the dance floor and no girls would come dance with me. This was in a club in Mexico. I guess i just wasn't cool enough for them. |
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Post by zaab on Jan 1, 2006 2:01:57 GMT -5
If you're shy and want a chance to 'pickup' just nudge your way into a group of girls on the dancefloor. I tried this once (I don't know what got into me) and it almost worked. This cute girl put her hand on my shoulder and said something to me, but I couldn't hear her, and I danced in the group for the rest of the night all without saying a word to anyone. It was the best night I had all year and how pathetic is that? |
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