Where to make friends?

[lonelyheart]

What sites online?

Where in real life?

I'm fucking sick of my 'friends' disappointing me all the time.

[nameless]

i use some penpal sites and have regular emails with some people now but havent as yet met up with anyone!

[airburst]

lonelyheart said:

Where in real life?

You might wanna try meeting people who like to do things that you like to do. People with similar hobbies/interests.

[Samantha]

airburst said:

lonelyheart said:

Where in real life?

You might wanna try meeting people who like to do things that you like to do. People with similar hobbies/interests.

I'll second that. Unfortunately there is no magic answer, you just have to put yourself out there as they say. Join clubs that interest you, besides meeting people you might have fun too. Fun is always good. Maybe take an evening class in something you like? Do some volunteer work? There are all sorts of different things you could do within those options and all sorts of different people to meet.

[Paulinus]

papdancer said:

I'll second that. Unfortunately there is no magic answer, you just have to put yourself out there as they say. Join clubs that interest you, besides meeting people you might have fun too. Fun is always good. Maybe take an evening class in something you like? Do some volunteer work? There are all sorts of different things you could do within those options and all sorts of different people to meet.

This is where I'm at right now and I have to say I'm finding it hard. My big problem is I don't have many interests and all I can think of doing is to take a trial and error approach to this and hope I develop more, which is very scary for me. I'm starting at a Kung Fu class on Saturday I must be mad.

[Samantha]

paulthequiet said:

This is where I'm at right now and I have to say I'm finding it hard. My big problem is I don't have many interests and all I can think of doing is to take a trial and error approach to this and hope I develop more, which is very scary for me. I'm starting at a Kung Fu class on Saturday I must be mad.

Yay! Good for you paul. It can be difficult though when you don't have many interests but I think trial and error is better than nothing. Hey it might be a voyage of discovery. You might find you enjoy alot of stuff you never thought you would, as well as making friends. Good luck at Kung Fu Paul, not that you need it. You're a top man (as in person not the shop ;D), have faith.

[bert]

cool, good luck paul, i do kung fu, its fun