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Post by lonelyheart on Oct 6, 2005 20:23:24 GMT -5
At uni, I've noticed that girls in my classes are either really into going out and drinking or the very conservative quiet boring type.
I love to go out and have fun but being shy and quiet makes me tend to be more conservative. I feel like I won't be able to keep up with the party girls but I feel like the conservative ones are too boring. I feel like I can talk to the conservative ones without much problem now but still blush in the presence of an outgoing gal.
I was just wondering if their were girls who were in between, also for the ladies on the board, which would you class yourself as?
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Post by Crashtastic on Oct 6, 2005 20:33:24 GMT -5
Uh...I guess I would be in between. I'm not opposed to drinking and all that good stuff, but I'm not even close to a party girl lol So yes, the girls in between exist.
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Post by lonelyheart on Oct 6, 2005 20:42:56 GMT -5
thanks for your reply! the thing that bothers me is that i would like to talk to these confident girls but feel like they would not want anything to do with a shy fool.
i feel left out when people talk about going out and getting drunk and having fun cause i can't add anything to the conversation because i rarely have the opportunity (well also by choice) to do so.
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Post by UnicornTamer on Oct 6, 2005 21:23:54 GMT -5
I would classify myself as in between. I've gone to the bars to drink and dance but usually my friends take care of the planning and inviting and it is definitely not something I do every weekend.
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Post by lonelyheart on Oct 6, 2005 21:52:25 GMT -5
I would classify myself as in between. I've gone to the bars to drink and dance but usually my friends take care of the planning and inviting and it is definitely not something I do every weekend. what kind of guy do you think you could relate to or feel attracted to the most? |
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Post by saphron on Oct 6, 2005 22:13:52 GMT -5
I'm really boring. I stay home all the time except when I go to work. Never go out and do crazy stuff. Go to work and then stay home is pretty much my life at the moment.
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Post by lonelyheart on Oct 6, 2005 23:09:04 GMT -5
I'm really boring. I stay home all the time except when I go to work. Never go out and do crazy stuff. Go to work and then stay home is pretty much my life at the moment. as long as you enjoy your life there is nothing wrong with that! |
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Post by UnicornTamer on Oct 7, 2005 0:28:57 GMT -5
I'm attracted to guys who aren't cocky or stuck on themselves and who know how to be polite. Guys who are extremely outgoing tend to intimidate me while those who are shy come off as being sweet (definitely a good thing).
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Post by lonelyheart on Oct 7, 2005 0:46:55 GMT -5
I have a few friends who are girls who are always saying how they are sick of being hurt by the 'hot' cocky blokes and how they want a nice shy guy yet they always seem to go for these cocky guys?!
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Post by UnicornTamer on Oct 7, 2005 1:36:47 GMT -5
Ah yes, that does seem to happen, doesn't it? I know guys have been annoyed by this before, and girls always complain that guys are only attracted to pretty girls, it seems to be an ongoing problem.
Anyway, I won't deny that I've fallen for some cocky guys before and I couldn't tell you why I was attracted to them, except maybe for their looks, but I had a crush on a very sweet, very polite guy and though it didn't work out it made me notice just how annoying and stupid some of the more outgoing guys could be and I realized it wasn't worth it to pursue them. Maybe someday your friends will realize that too.
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Post by pnoopiepnats on Oct 7, 2005 2:42:04 GMT -5
I think I am pretty boring. I go to work and come back to my cave. For some unknown reason others seem to think I am interesting?
I guess to have a friend you got to be a friend.
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Post by Paulinus on Oct 7, 2005 9:47:23 GMT -5
I think its a misconception that shy people(male or female) are conservative and boring. We just may appear that way from our actions in certain situations. Put some shy people into a non shyness inducing situation and they can be anything but.
It also depends on your definition of conservative and boring. One persons boring is another's exciting. For example many people would label me boring because I have no interest in hanging out in pubs/clubs drinking. While to me doing exactly that is a boring activity.
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Post by aforgottenmemory on Oct 7, 2005 10:24:24 GMT -5
I think its a misconception that shy people(male or female) are conservative and boring. We just may appear that way from our actions in certain situations. Put some shy people into a non shyness inducing situation and they can be anything but. It also depends on your definition of conservative and boring. One persons boring is another's exciting. For example many people would label me boring because I have no interest in hanging out in pubs/clubs drinking. While to me doing exactly that is a boring activity. Yay! We think very much alike  I don't like hanging out in pubs and clubs either and neither do my two best friends. They both have girlfriends too. We just do what we enjoy and what's boring is merely a matter of opinion. |
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Post by pnoopiepnats on Oct 7, 2005 10:50:06 GMT -5
Yay! We think very much alike I don't like hanging out in pubs and clubs either and neither do my two best friends. They both have girlfriends too. We just do what we enjoy and what's boring is merely a matter of opinion. Yeah I hate bars and that type of thing too. It is very boring. |
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Post by sushiboat on Oct 7, 2005 11:08:38 GMT -5
Why do you have to find someone who is exactly as social as you are? Most people are adaptable. If you only see someone once or twice a week, you don't have to fulfill all of his or her needs. They can go out with their friends or stay in and do quiet stuff on their own time. Just make sure that their time with you is fun, whether it is going out or staying in.
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I don't like hanging out in pubs and clubs either and neither do my two best friends. They both have girlfriends too. We just do what we enjoy and what's boring is merely a matter of opinion. 