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Post by Bashfulme on Apr 22, 2004 3:24:04 GMT -5
Well, I feel kind of weird posting this after all this conversation about public transportation that really did go off-topic.
However, I wanted to say that I totally feel the same way you do. I have no friends other than the friends that my boyfriend has. One of them is the most loud and obnoxious person I have ever known, and another began to grow on me, and am friends with him now. I am very clingy but I don't think my boyfriend minds it. YET. He is very easy-going, and I hope he doesn't start minding it, or I don't know what i'll do. But, I have NO other friends that I can remotely feel comfortable with. I am trying to make friends with people, but I find it does take a lot of time to get to know a person and to do so, I need to spend time alone with them or with only a couple people, or the others talk and I can't really talk and be myself, and I can't get to know the person. I very much wish I had a best friend but right now my only best friend is my bf. I often am jealous of him because he can joke and talk about stuff with people whereas I can NOT. He is loud and talkative whereas I usually don't say much.
It is very difficult to find someone you really vibe with. I think most of the time you just have to hang out with people you don't necessarily vibe with or like the best and you get to know them better. You might get to like them or you might not. But it is better to have tried. I know that by hanging out with my bf`s friend, I have learned to like him when he wasn't my favorite person before. Good luck. Rachel
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