Post by strawberrysweetie on Sept 4, 2004 16:44:17 GMT -5
Okay, so I have like no real friends. I never go out and hang out with people my age outside of school. But, I have a question. Do you think that you can be friends with just anybody or don't you think that you have to have at least some kind of bond or something?
Well, I know that sounds like a really funny (or should I say stupid?) question, but I really need to know what you guys think about this. Also, there's more that goes along with this, so please read.
All right, there's this girl in my home ec. class that (just out of the blue I swear) asked me if I wanted to spend the night on saturday night. And I was just so not expecting that question and was trying to come up with an excuse. When I said I didn't know, she's like, well okay, let me give you my phone number and you can call me, and I said okay (but very quietly). Then she asked for mine, but I didn't really want to give it to her, so I just said that I couldn't give it out to anyone since it was unlisted (lame excuse I know). Then, to top it all off, she said something like, "Will you call me? Please call me, because whenever I give my number out, nobody ever calls me back."
So now I feel really bad because I really don't want to call her or spend the night. I don't even really know her. I've barely talked to her at all, so I don't understand why she wants to hang out with me when she knows nothing about me. She's even asked me my name like three times! She couldn't even remember it when she asked me to spend the night! To tell you the truth, I think she's a bit strange, and I don't think we have much in common. I find her a bit annoying. What should I do? Am I too picky about people? Should I call her, and if so, what should I say?
Please, please, please help me, because I really don't know what to do or how to act around her. I'm nice to her and all, but I just don't think that we could be good friends. Am I just an awful person?, because I feel really bad for feeling this way. Thanks in advance for any replies.
I know I posted this on the general board also, so sorry I posted it twice, but I just want any helpI can get. Plus, I think it's kind of a dilemma.
Well, I know that sounds like a really funny (or should I say stupid?) question, but I really need to know what you guys think about this. Also, there's more that goes along with this, so please read.
All right, there's this girl in my home ec. class that (just out of the blue I swear) asked me if I wanted to spend the night on saturday night. And I was just so not expecting that question and was trying to come up with an excuse. When I said I didn't know, she's like, well okay, let me give you my phone number and you can call me, and I said okay (but very quietly). Then she asked for mine, but I didn't really want to give it to her, so I just said that I couldn't give it out to anyone since it was unlisted (lame excuse I know). Then, to top it all off, she said something like, "Will you call me? Please call me, because whenever I give my number out, nobody ever calls me back."
So now I feel really bad because I really don't want to call her or spend the night. I don't even really know her. I've barely talked to her at all, so I don't understand why she wants to hang out with me when she knows nothing about me. She's even asked me my name like three times! She couldn't even remember it when she asked me to spend the night! To tell you the truth, I think she's a bit strange, and I don't think we have much in common. I find her a bit annoying. What should I do? Am I too picky about people? Should I call her, and if so, what should I say?
Please, please, please help me, because I really don't know what to do or how to act around her. I'm nice to her and all, but I just don't think that we could be good friends. Am I just an awful person?, because I feel really bad for feeling this way. Thanks in advance for any replies.
I know I posted this on the general board also, so sorry I posted it twice, but I just want any helpI can get. Plus, I think it's kind of a dilemma.