Zvezda
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Post by Zvezda on Dec 8, 2004 16:08:28 GMT -5
you saw this really goodlooking (aka hot) boy (or girl) somewhere, knowing that it might be the only time you'd see him or her if you don't do anything? Would you go ahead and just get the nerve to talk to him or her or would you just let the person pass you by? I think I know the answers to this but gimme your answers anyway! Anyway I saw a hot guy at the trainstation today and I really wanted to show him that I found him interesting (I know how to) but somehow it was all messed up. Like we had eye contact and I seriously wanted to at least smile a bit but yeah I didn't. But I seriously wonder what a guy would think if a girl just approached him on a cold wednesday morning while he's smoking looking all good and stuff . And wth would I tell/ask him? I don't smoke so asking for a light is outta the question unless I wanna make a complete fool out myself lol. To do it or not to do it...that's my dilemma.
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Post by Kitten on Dec 8, 2004 17:16:13 GMT -5
I could never walk up to a guy and tell him how how he was. Mostly because I'd be too afraid, but also because to me, there'd be no point. I'd have no desire to talk to him, since I'd know absolutely nothing about him except that he's really hot, and in my experience, it's the pretty ones who're usually the assholes as well. I couldn't do it, but if you can, more power to you. I mean it could totally make someone's day. I've had once had a total stranger on the street tell me I was the most beautiful woman he's ever seen. I told him "you must not get out much" but I was glowing all the way home. It totally made my week. I think most people would be flattered.
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Post by Medici on Dec 8, 2004 17:54:37 GMT -5
I would never say anything fresh to a hot girl in a train station. Thats like the best way to get yourself thrown on the tracks. But lets say for the sake of argument that first of all I was in a train station (which I almost never am) and second of all I spotted a girl who for some reason looks perfect for me. She'd be standing there all sulky and bored looking like girls are wont to do. Then I would go over to her and say,
"Sucks having to ride the train, doesn't it?"
She says, "excuse me?" She thinks, "you dare speak to me?? what audacity!"
I repeat, "sucks having to ride the train, doesn't it?"
She say, "I guess. WHATever"
Then I'd say, "Not for me, I like it."
She'd say, "oh really, why's that?"
Then I'd start just making shit up. Conversation started.
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Post by lsdima4 on Dec 8, 2004 20:02:17 GMT -5
This situation happens everyday happens alsmost every day with the reslut being me not having enough courage to try Buti ts definitely one of my goals to be able to come up to anybody I want to
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Post by lsdima4 on Dec 8, 2004 20:05:10 GMT -5
To Kitten:
You must not get out much??? Ouch
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Post by Carlsberg on Dec 8, 2004 21:45:51 GMT -5
Let's see... I'd probably raise my head, straighten my back and walk straight towards opposite direction of her. In other words, I'd chicken out in a pathetic, cowardly manner.
My shyness isn't too bad, my friends actually consider me kind of a badass, but only once in a blue moon I can work up the courage to ask a woman out. Unfortunately, women don't ask me out first either so I am kind of in a rut dating-wise.
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Post by old free guy on Dec 8, 2004 22:06:22 GMT -5
In reality I would chicken out. But if I had the courage I would ask random questions to that girl. Random questions such as what's the time, it's crowded here isn't it ? If she doesn't want talk to me then at least I can tell myself, I tried and gave her a chance to know me.
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Zvezda
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Post by Zvezda on Dec 9, 2004 5:03:18 GMT -5
I couldn't do it, but if you can, more power to you. I mean it could totally make someone's day. I've had once had a total stranger on the street tell me I was the most beautiful woman he's ever seen. I told him "you must not get out much" but I was glowing all the way home. It totally made my week. I think most people would be flattered. LOL nice come back I have had similair experiences whereby a total stranger came up to me and said 'you are very beautiful' ;D and it made my day because it came out of the blue and cause I wasn't feeling that hot actually I never feel that hot lol. With me when random people start talking I don't mind at all. Actually it's fun and you meet a lot of interesting people. Like this one time, I was on the bus and this guy who sat kinda next to me just started to talk. I was like 'okaaaay' at first but then we had a nice conversation. I can't remember what he started with, anyway he was kind of old haha Thanks for your replies, next time I am sure that the same thing is going to happen lol. I'm gonna try if I see him again, to at least flirt a little bit or something, got nothing to lose! Well accept for my dignity and self-respect
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Post by lonelyheart on Dec 9, 2004 6:54:28 GMT -5
I do nothing and regret it.
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Post by wshonastr on Dec 12, 2004 13:38:54 GMT -5
I do nothing and regret it. I would do the same thing, but I would also be trying to rationalize why talking to the person wouldn't have worked out anyway in order to make myself feel better about chickening out. haha
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BornIn1142
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Post by BornIn1142 on Dec 17, 2004 16:28:39 GMT -5
I'd try not to get into an overly embarassing situation... Maybe hide my real personality by acting as level-headed and tough as possible...
It's not good, but I'd do it anyway.
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