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Post by RRB on Jan 14, 2005 10:07:52 GMT -5
Hey, im 18 and never had a girlfriend before nor kissed a girl before. I like this girl alot, were good friends. The problem im having is getting the courage to make a move on her. I get along with girls fine its just that when i sometimes talk to her, i get really nervous sometimes and I think im trying 'to hard' to impress and thats wats stuffing me up. I believe I dont have the courage is because my self esteen is lower than usual becuz i have acne. There were times when we flirted with each other abit but yah.. maybe it wasnt flirting, since i've never had a girlfriend i dont know if it flirting. I have her number and stuff and she gave me a call last week and we had a pretty good convo. Its now been a week since shes called me, and i really want to call her back and start chatting but I keep putting it off becuz if i call her, i might lock up and dont know what to talk about, and hence.. getting a awkward moment which we all dont want. =P I dont really get to see her often becuz skool has finished and i rarely get to see her, but i will be seeing her next week at my friends(girl) bday party.
Anyone have any tips?
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Post by strawberrysweetie on Jan 15, 2005 21:07:16 GMT -5
Have you two ever gone out with each other? Maybe you should call her and invite her to go to the movies with you or something and maybe dinner afterwards. Going to a movie would you give you something else to talk about. Then see where that takes you.
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Post by meow on Jan 19, 2005 4:13:00 GMT -5
Hey, im 18 and never had a girlfriend before nor kissed a girl before. I like this girl alot, were good friends. The problem im having is getting the courage to make a move on her. I get along with girls fine its just that when i sometimes talk to her, i get really nervous sometimes and I think im trying 'to hard' to impress and thats wats stuffing me up. I believe I dont have the courage is because my self esteen is lower than usual becuz i have acne. There were times when we flirted with each other abit but yah.. maybe it wasnt flirting, since i've never had a girlfriend i dont know if it flirting. I have her number and stuff and she gave me a call last week and we had a pretty good convo. Its now been a week since shes called me, and i really want to call her back and start chatting but I keep putting it off becuz if i call her, i might lock up and dont know what to talk about, and hence.. getting a awkward moment which we all dont want. =P I dont really get to see her often becuz skool has finished and i rarely get to see her, but i will be seeing her next week at my friends(girl) bday party. Anyone have any tips? i would suggest just calling her, if worst case scenario happens and you come up empty on conversation she'll probably fill the void. you could always ask her to do something if you can't think of anything else to say. and if worst comes to worst you can get off by saying someone is calling you and you have to go. you don't have to be a conversational wunderkind to call a girl, especially if you're already friends. worrying about it too long before calling is the worst thing you can do, because it just causes the anxiety to build up. if nothing else, just call her up and complain about being bored. then she'll try to entertain you!  |
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Post by Jarous on Feb 4, 2005 5:53:44 GMT -5
Yes, definitely call her, don't worry, the pressure to talk won't rest entirely on your shoulders - she'll do half of the talking But do something - anything, man - lest you find how much worse regret is compared to embarrassement... |
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