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Post by Knox on Sept 15, 2005 20:23:37 GMT -5
so here's my problem,,,, i graduated from high school last year,,,, and there was this fine fine girl who i adored.... and of course i wouldnt be on this site if i wasnt shy.... so guess what,,, i rarely said anything to her.... now after high school i figured i would never see her again,,,,, but recently i told a friend of mine about it,,, and it turns out he knew her,,,, and he has her number......so anyway i got her number,,,,, but i have no clue what im should say to her, that is, if i actually somehow get the courage to call her.....well if anyone has any ideas let me know
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Post by shyni on Sept 15, 2005 23:43:19 GMT -5
Call her and ask her about her plans for the future and talk about how things were in highschool, ask her what she likes to do and things like that. Well I wish I could give you more ideas, but I honestly can't think of anything else. If I come up with another one I'll post it here. CALL HER!!! I defenetly would do it.
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Post by lily on Sept 16, 2005 2:37:22 GMT -5
so here's my problem,,,, i graduated from high school last year,,,, and there was this fine fine girl who i adored.... and of course i wouldnt be on this site if i wasnt shy.... so guess what,,, i rarely said anything to her.... now after high school i figured i would never see her again,,,,, but recently i told a friend of mine about it,,, and it turns out he knew her,,,, and he has her number......so anyway i got her number,,,,, but i have no clue what im should say to her, that is, if i actually somehow get the courage to call her.....well if anyone has any ideas let me know how about - 'i ran into so-and-so and he gave me your number and i thought i'd give you a call and see how you're doing'. that's all i got...good luck! ;D |
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Post by wshonastr on Sept 16, 2005 14:01:40 GMT -5
how well does your friend know her? maybe you guys can all get together as group, and you can get to know her a little better that way, instead of having to just call her out of the blue.
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Post by Knox on Sept 16, 2005 15:04:45 GMT -5
his sister went out with her brother,,, a long time ago,,,,, he used to be friends with her but they havent really been in touch lately, he just happened to be able to find her number..... he even told me not to tell her who i got her number from because he thinks it would 'weird' her out..... which is gonna make it even more awkward for me....ahhhh oh well...
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Post by BeatShyness on Sept 17, 2005 1:04:32 GMT -5
I think you should try what Lily said. It's worth a try. I can't really think of anything else at the moment other than what was said already here. But, please do tell how it went if you try it!
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Post by Knox on Sept 29, 2005 16:18:56 GMT -5
i thought id update you guys on whats happened so far,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,i got good news and i got bad news,,,,,,,, the good news is i called her,,, the bad news is it was an inactive number it must've been outdated,,, man this sucks,,, i actually some how get the jewels to call and then this happens,,,,,,,,,ahhhh oh well...........  |
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Post by wshonastr on Sept 30, 2005 13:14:40 GMT -5
i thought id update you guys on whats happened so far,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,i got good news and i got bad news,,,,,,,, the good news is i called her,,, the bad news is it was an inactive number it must've been outdated,,, man this sucks,,, i actually some how get the jewels to call and then this happens,,,,,,,,,ahhhh oh well........... sorry to hear things didnt work out the way u wanted, but congratulations on actually calling the number. thats a big step! |
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Post by nameless on Oct 2, 2005 16:18:44 GMT -5
how well does your friend know her? maybe you guys can all get together as group, and you can get to know her a little better that way, instead of having to just call her out of the blue. that would be the best idea! i wouldnt just call her as you say you guys hardly spoke! |
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Post by Knox on Oct 5, 2005 12:00:39 GMT -5
well i have yet another update!!!!! i dont know if any of you have a myspace account but i do and was bowsing people on there who graduated from my school last year and guess who i found.....yup i found her and she's in college in Arkansas State University which is in Jonesboro which is very close to where ill be moving eventually........so as you can imagine i am in an extremely good mood right now!!!!!!!
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Post by aforgottenmemory on Oct 5, 2005 14:21:41 GMT -5
Wow that's really great! I really hope it works out for you. You sound like you care about this girl a lot! Good luck, i'll be cheering you on!!! ;D
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Post by Knox on Feb 1, 2006 13:38:24 GMT -5
i know this is an old old post but i thought id let everyone know what new with this.... it turns out she's got a boyfriend,,,, ) : they seem pretty serious,,,but now i have a new problem, i just cant seem to move on... i dont know if i can love anyone else... i guess ive just fallen out of love, but cant seem to fall back in love with anyone else.... now that the possibility of being with her is virtually gone,, there's a big void in my life,, hmmm oh well,,,
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Post by catch 22 on Feb 1, 2006 23:37:53 GMT -5
Well, you obviously invested a lot of unhealthy devotion to a person you never even knew. It happened to me too in the past so I can sympathize with how that goes. I also know how hard it is to give it up. I fell in love with a girl when I was 15 after talking to her just a few times during summer vacation... she was perfect, like somebody out of a dream. I thought about her frequently until I was about 19. Unfortunately back in those days I was way too chicken to make any kind of move. Only when I moved away to live in a different country halfway around the world did I finally get her out of my mind. I've been a little smarter since then and at least attempted to get involved with every girl I fancied. I even had some moderate success, although I still haven't had any meaningful longterm relationship. I am quite content with my current life though...  Anyway... back to your situation... I agree that you should put her out of the picture. It takes a lot of resolve and hell knows I've never been any good at it, but the best thing you can do is to realize and understand that she's nothing special. There's about a billion girls out there who are as good or better than she is. Just turn your attention to other things (maybe other girls?) and live your life instead of dwelling on teenage fantasies. That's probably not what you want to hear right now, but it's the only longterm solution. |
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Post by Knox on Feb 2, 2006 12:47:37 GMT -5
actually a part of me has sorta felt that way for a while now... i guess i just needed to hear it from somebody else,,,, there are plenty of other fish in the sea,, then again i never was much of a fisherman....hehe.... see im allready feeling better im making jokes ill have to put that one as my sig...lol anyways now im just rambling but thanks i think i really needed to hear that,,,,
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