Post by Some Guy on Dec 16, 2003 18:35:30 GMT -5
I'm not really sure how to intoduce myself so ill just do it. Im Adrian Miller and the reason im here is because today I kind of admitted to myself for the first time ever that I am actually "SHY". For years i have been telling myself that "I'm not shy, I'm just quiet" and made excuses for not getting to know people. For example when i've got a new short term job and i dont talk to anyone i tell myself that "its only temporary there is no point in getting to know people anyway" and "everyone is different to me so i may aswell just stick with my old friends". I have recently admitted to myself that i am feeling lonely at the moment and today i have admitted finally that I am shy, i think these things are very closely connected btw. For years people have been telling me that im shy but like ive said, i made an excuse to myself that im not, until now.
Ive spent a bit of time looking around this place tonight and I cant believe how much i can 100% relate to the things people have been saying, this all further confirms my new admittance that i am infact shy. I am 18 and have a job working in a call centre (im fine on the phone to strangers, terrible face-to-face with real people) and i dont know anybody who works with me. I barely say a thing to anybody all day and it can get quite uncomfortable. I have been there for approaching 3 months and I am now being known as the "quiet one" by my co-workers. Tomorrow is in fact the christmas lunch/party for my works team. i am the only person who will not be attending. Some people would say that i should be going to try and make friends but it would be so uncomfortable for me i cant even imagine it. One co-worker just yesterday said i was being "my usual noisy self" and said i should go so they could see if i would "be so quiet with a few drinks inside me." Tomorrow afternoon i will be sat in my office and be the only person there with about 25 empty seats surrounding me. All the other 12 teams of about 30 each people will be there and see me and im sure will make some kind of "billy no-mates" remarks to me. Im not exactly looking forward to work tomorrow.
Anyways, hello everyone! Im very sorry if im rambled on but thats just whats on my mind, im sure many of you have much bigger problems than me but i thank you for your time if you've paid attention to me!
Ive spent a bit of time looking around this place tonight and I cant believe how much i can 100% relate to the things people have been saying, this all further confirms my new admittance that i am infact shy. I am 18 and have a job working in a call centre (im fine on the phone to strangers, terrible face-to-face with real people) and i dont know anybody who works with me. I barely say a thing to anybody all day and it can get quite uncomfortable. I have been there for approaching 3 months and I am now being known as the "quiet one" by my co-workers. Tomorrow is in fact the christmas lunch/party for my works team. i am the only person who will not be attending. Some people would say that i should be going to try and make friends but it would be so uncomfortable for me i cant even imagine it. One co-worker just yesterday said i was being "my usual noisy self" and said i should go so they could see if i would "be so quiet with a few drinks inside me." Tomorrow afternoon i will be sat in my office and be the only person there with about 25 empty seats surrounding me. All the other 12 teams of about 30 each people will be there and see me and im sure will make some kind of "billy no-mates" remarks to me. Im not exactly looking forward to work tomorrow.
Anyways, hello everyone! Im very sorry if im rambled on but thats just whats on my mind, im sure many of you have much bigger problems than me but i thank you for your time if you've paid attention to me!