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Post by guinevere on Aug 28, 2005 10:00:36 GMT -5
maybe
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Post by wonkothesane on Aug 28, 2005 10:42:43 GMT -5
As the great philosopher Popeye said,"I am's what I am's."
Sure you can have a more positive or negative attitude to life depending on your mood but it's hard to completely change your personality which is intrinsicly you. I'm fine- it's everybody else who has the problem!!!!!!!!!!!
Serriously, I like posting here dispite the differences in personalities and the fact the many will never be shy here compared with offline- knowbody seems too judgemental which i think is a common trait among shy people, you can see others points of view but not neccessarily agree with them.
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Post by shygurl6069 on Sept 26, 2005 14:23:49 GMT -5
us. . They told me I seemed sweet, sensitive, feminine and mysterious. Alas, I'm not sure that such qualities are deemed so attractive in men. Yes, if u ask me it suxxs. I been in almost all 4 years in my skool, and all the cute guys r taken. If I wasn't soo dam shy I wouldv'e probably talk 2 them Face it the least attractive thing is to b quietiest among the crowd.
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Post by nats on Nov 13, 2005 20:35:57 GMT -5
I think it's okay for guys to be shy. They get away with it- they can be sexy and brooding, or sweet and sensitive.
But if a girls shy she's wierd. Girls are supposed to be confident and outgoing and fun. I can barely even squeek at guys i like most of the time.
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Post by blink1 on Nov 15, 2005 7:11:00 GMT -5
I like shy girls but Im shy myself so.. lol
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Post by zerocharisma! on Nov 21, 2005 21:03:59 GMT -5
If a girl's shy she's wierd. Girls are supposed to be confident and outgoing and fun. I can barely even squeek at guys I like most of the time. I disagree wholeheartedly. Shy girls have so many attractive qualities: loyalty, compassion, sensitivity, depth of character, strength, fidelity, and total absence of pretension just to name a few. A girl with these qualities is downright sexy in my book. I know these qualities aren't exactly "reality show compliant" but what do reality shows have to do with reality? Having a shy girl open up to me would be the ultimate expression of love and trust. Shy girls: keep being yourself and find yourself a man who is more than three inches deep.
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Post by B on Dec 27, 2005 17:45:10 GMT -5
Shyness hasn't been a quality that's turned me off to a girl before. It really never registered with me. Though I guess in retrospect I never really went after girls who didn't seem to want to talk to me. "If a girl's shy she's wierd. Girls are supposed to be confident and outgoing and fun." I thought that only applied to guys! Looks like we're dealing with the same mentality. I've heard some women say that 'brooding' is sexy. I don't really get any feedback though. I don't know if women think I'm brooding or constipated.
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Post by nats on Jan 12, 2006 22:22:50 GMT -5
lol, I think shy guys are brilliant. I like shy girls too, but I know more girls that'd go for shy guys than guys who'd go for shy girls.
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Post by lonelyheart on Jan 13, 2006 8:44:28 GMT -5
I think it's okay for guys to be shy. They get away with it- they can be sexy and brooding, or sweet and sensitive. But if a girls shy she's wierd. Girls are supposed to be confident and outgoing and fun. I can barely even squeek at guys i like most of the time. It's the opposite. I see shy girls get guys attention all the time. Shy guys are always ignored, unless they are fucking joe six-pack.
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Post by lonelyheart on Jan 13, 2006 8:45:47 GMT -5
lol, I think shy guys are brilliant. I like shy girls too, but I know more girls that'd go for shy guys than guys who'd go for shy girls. I would go for shy girls, if I felt attracted to them.
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Post by nats on Jan 13, 2006 9:27:30 GMT -5
I love that whole brooding shy guy thing. It's really sweet. Not that I don't like confident guys as well. And six packs are sooo overrated. A wee bit of muscleyness is nice, but it can be horrible if it's too much.
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Post by Samantha on Jan 13, 2006 11:37:23 GMT -5
It's a funny old world.
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Post by MrNice on Jan 13, 2006 15:29:52 GMT -5
you are so sweet
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Post by wagnerr on Jan 13, 2006 22:50:59 GMT -5
lol, I think shy guys are brilliant. I like shy girls too, but I know more girls that'd go for shy guys than guys who'd go for shy girls. Please point me in the direction of these shy girls, if you would. I'll need to write down their names, too. Oooh!! I better call Bic and tell them to make more pens!!! Mine may run out of ink Yep, i find shy girls very attractive, if only because they do not speak as much as most women i know. I have worked around a bunch of women in the past, and they never seemed to shut up with the gossip. So a shy girl is definitely more attractive in that regard. Also, shy girls hide what they're really feeling. Often, this is annoying, but if yall guys can break into a shy girl's mind, you're be in for a most interesting and erotic treat.
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Post by shypsychologyguy on Jan 13, 2006 23:48:31 GMT -5
I like shy girls because I know they wont try to dominate the guy and from what Ive seen are a whole lot of fun to flirt with.
I think shy girls have it easier than shy guys.
however if guys stereotypically have freindships based on common activity intrests then a shy girl would be disavantaged by being uninvolved in activities.
at the end of the day I would perfer a shy girl bar none
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