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Post by pkroks on Dec 20, 2005 7:15:44 GMT -5
what is the best book/dvd/cd help out there? I have heard good things about double your dating but i'm not sure... anyone else got any ideas? i'm a guy looking to improve my dating of women.
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Post by B on Dec 27, 2005 17:24:01 GMT -5
Double Your Dating is good stuff. I think the original e-book is pretty cheap and I'm pretty sure D'Angelo has a money-back policy, so it's definately worth checking out. If you're fairly clueless about women and dating, Louis and Copeland have some good stuff. Really down to earth and nothing too goofy. More gimmicky systems could have you coming off as a bit of a freak unless you're really outgoing.
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Post by ka24de on Feb 7, 2006 3:04:33 GMT -5
all useless just go out and do the real thing.......u're wasting ur time.........
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Post by MrNice on Feb 8, 2006 0:32:58 GMT -5
yeah there comes a point where you have to 'just do it' and no cd/dvd/book will help
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Post by Bodhi on Feb 8, 2006 0:36:09 GMT -5
yeah there comes a point where you have to 'just do it' and no cd/dvd/book will help Yeah, I agree. Going out there and dating real people is the best way to start to feel comfortable with dating and give you confidence. You can listen to all the cd's and dvd's and books you want, but its all just theory until you actually start dating real human beings.
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Post by mistercookie on Feb 19, 2006 9:37:28 GMT -5
I have never had a date but I just saw Hitch and thought it made some sense ;D
Pretty funny too.
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Post by griffins on Feb 20, 2006 22:24:28 GMT -5
what is the best book/dvd/cd help out there? I have heard good things about double your dating but i'm not sure... anyone else got any ideas? i'm a guy looking to improve my dating of women. Just with everything in life: practice, practice, practice. Though I do admit...doubleyourdating has some interesting theories that are worthwhile, especially for shy folks...he would refer to as "wussies" or doormats that women don't go for.
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Post by zaab on Feb 20, 2006 22:28:45 GMT -5
what is the best book/dvd/cd help out there? I have heard good things about double your dating but i'm not sure... anyone else got any ideas? i'm a guy looking to improve my dating of women. Just with everything in life: practice, practice, practice. Though I do admit...doubleyourdating has some interesting theories that are worthwhile, especially for shy folks...he would refer to as "wussies" or doormats that women don't go for. That's how I know I'm getting good advice, when someone starts throwing insults at me and treats me like a frat pledge.
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Post by Paulinus on Feb 21, 2006 4:36:09 GMT -5
Just with everything in life: practice, practice, practice. Though I do admit...doubleyourdating has some interesting theories that are worthwhile, especially for shy folks...he would refer to as "wussies" or doormats that women don't go for. That's how I know I'm getting good advice, when someone starts throwing insults at me and treats me like a frat pledge. Haha. I have to wonder about the mentality of that, personally if anyone insults me when giving advice I automatically think their advice is not worth listening to.
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Post by sushiboat on Feb 21, 2006 8:01:09 GMT -5
That's how I know I'm getting good advice, when someone starts throwing insults at me and treats me like a frat pledge. Haha. I have to wonder about the mentality of that, personally if anyone insults me when giving advice I automatically think their advice is not worth listening to. If the Devil himself tells you to wipe your butt with toilet paper, are you going to use a rock instead? There is no substitute for evaluating the advice itself, regardless of the likability of the source.
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Post by Paulinus on Feb 21, 2006 8:46:54 GMT -5
If the Devil himself tells you to wipe your butt with toilet paper, are you going to use a rock instead? There is no substitute for evaluating the advice itself, regardless of the likability of the source. If somehow I where completely oblivious to the nature of rocks and tissue etc then who knows what decision I would take. It would be more likely that I would disregard it as neither true nor false and try and find out another way as I would be too suspicious of the advice givers reliability. I was just pointing out that I think there are better ways to hand out advice then insult your audience, as they are less likely to listen in my opinion.
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Post by zaab on Feb 21, 2006 11:53:40 GMT -5
Haha. I have to wonder about the mentality of that, personally if anyone insults me when giving advice I automatically think their advice is not worth listening to. If the Devil himself tells you to wipe your butt with toilet paper, are you going to use a rock instead? There is no substitute for evaluating the advice itself, regardless of the likability of the source. I would suspect that the source is trying to bait me through name calling and automatically evaluate the advice with a great deal of suspicion. And sad to say, even if the advice was useful I'd probably not regard it seriously.
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Post by Samantha on Feb 21, 2006 12:40:53 GMT -5
i'm a guy looking to improve my dating of women. What do you mean by this? What do you want from dating?
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Post by griffins on Feb 22, 2006 23:24:56 GMT -5
Just with everything in life: practice, practice, practice. Though I do admit...doubleyourdating has some interesting theories that are worthwhile, especially for shy folks...he would refer to as "wussies" or doormats that women don't go for. That's how I know I'm getting good advice, when someone starts throwing insults at me and treats me like a frat pledge. hey its tough love. Sometimes the truth hurts. It's not really calling YOU a wussy, its more of telling you how YOU are being viewed by the opposite sex when you act a certain way.
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Post by zaab on Feb 22, 2006 23:36:33 GMT -5
That's how I know I'm getting good advice, when someone starts throwing insults at me and treats me like a frat pledge. hey its tough love. Sometimes the truth hurts. It's not really calling YOU a wussy, its more of telling you how YOU are being viewed by the opposite sex when you act a certain way. It still sounds manipulative to me and it insults my intelligence. And anyway, part of being a wuss is caving in when you're being called a wuss. Being your own man is staying true to yourself when you know you're right and not caring what a bunch of aging frat boys who want your money think.
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