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Post by rukryM on Mar 4, 2009 15:48:25 GMT -5
Considering the source? Not sure what you mean here. Do you mean that I was into the wrong girl?
Also, I'm giving up because I really don't see the point in getting rejected over and over again, call it a "post-bitterness-state", I just want something more profound, fundamental and long-lasting and this time I think a girl could initiate contact instead^^.
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Post by Sweet Pea on Mar 4, 2009 17:31:25 GMT -5
Considering the source? Not sure what you mean here. Do you mean that I was into the wrong girl? Also, I'm giving up because I really don't see the point in getting rejected over and over again, call it a "post-bitterness-state", I just want something more profound, fundamental and long-lasting and this time I think a girl could initiate contact instead^^. yeah, i mean you found out she had poor judgement, so why worry about the rejection of such a person? instead maybe you should be counting your blessings you got out.
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Post by rukryM on Mar 5, 2009 9:18:09 GMT -5
yeah, i mean you found out she had poor judgement, so why worry about the rejection of such a person? instead maybe you should be counting your blessings you got out. Probably. I benefited from it by losing my virginity but that was the only thing.
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Post by nigella on Mar 8, 2009 15:13:16 GMT -5
The other issue with this is that severe anxiety could cause a problem and therefore the person gets more nervous when he sees a girl he really likes.Perhaps then tries to make a conversation but uncomfortble silence develops he then feels silly and and he gives up as his nerves get worse.
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Post by rukryM on Mar 8, 2009 15:31:43 GMT -5
This vicious circle is the reason why I'll have to apply magic to get a girlfriend.
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Post by nigella on Mar 9, 2009 16:48:14 GMT -5
Well for my self i belive that drinking heavy made me worse and the depression became worse.I also belive that i went to night clubs far too many times as there not the best places to meet nice girls.And the music is too loud any way which dosent help when trying to talk to women.
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Post by jai on Apr 29, 2009 7:14:38 GMT -5
Girls sometimes just throw themselves on me but realise I'm boooooooooooring and then are interested in 1 thing only but I hate meaningless sex. Hope I find a shy girl one day. Shy people are the only people I feel comfortable around because they know what I'm going through. Noone will understand unless they've been through it
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Post by Sweet Pea on Apr 29, 2009 9:39:06 GMT -5
Girls sometimes just throw themselves on me but realise I'm boooooooooooring and then are interested in 1 thing only but I hate meaningless sex. Hope I find a shy girl one day. Shy people are the only people I feel comfortable around because they know what I'm going through. Noone will understand unless they've been through it true. and when you try to explain yourself they're pretty much like 'okay...YOU are freakin NUTS!' end of story.
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Post by nigella on Apr 30, 2009 4:19:09 GMT -5
Yeah ive had wat seems like women coming after me but they change their mind when they find out im quiet.
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Post by jai on Apr 30, 2009 5:51:53 GMT -5
Thing is I'm not nuts, just an average guy who wants to have fun as much as the next guy. But I just don't show it as much. Hate confident people, but then I might hate myself if I grow and mature to become more confident?
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Post by Sweet Pea on Apr 30, 2009 8:31:11 GMT -5
Thing is I'm not nuts, just an average guy who wants to have fun as much as the next guy. But I just don't show it as much. Hate confident people, but then I might hate myself if I grow and mature to become more confident? i don't think you'll hate yourself. you'll just understand what it means to be on both sides of the fence.
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Post by warhole on May 1, 2009 9:49:32 GMT -5
Apparently i'm good looking, people keep telling me. Of course i dont think iam But girls dont throw them selves at me, maybe i dont see the signs
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Post by jai on Jun 12, 2009 10:34:42 GMT -5
girls don't throw themselves at you but its the little hints which they themselves don't know they are doing. Its all subconscouis, alot of out actions are. Its just shy people can't interpret them that easily. I've had a girl just plainly say "I like you, is that so hard to understand" purely because I didn't get those subliminal "signs"
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Post by lowne on Jan 31, 2010 14:52:37 GMT -5
It won't work. I'm good looking (not to sound arrogant about it), but I'm also miserable as fudge and a social freek. Personality > money, looks, everything tbh.
I'm watching 'real social dynamics' to try and not be such a dork atm, but haven't put any of it into practice yet.
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