Post by therockobama on Nov 1, 2010 16:47:01 GMT -5
So, this is a really difficult post to make because there's alot of story to tell.
I'll try to make it brief as possible.
For as long as I can remember, I've always been a shy person compared to the confidence that my brothers have exhumed in their outer personalities.
I've always wished I was more like them, or had some of their attributes although it hasn't been a major thought in my mind. However, after graduating from Uni last year and finding a job, I came up with a job closer to my degree which I got. So, having got the job, I'm in a position where I've gone so into my shell that this job is drifting away from me. So much so my low levels of esteem have been noted in formal meetings and they said my performance is different compared to my interview, where I was so confident etc.
At the interview stage, I never expected to get the job so I just went full hog at it. At work, I tend to be isolated and within a group of people who I can't resonate with and end up going to work, and doing my job without creating links with anybody. (I'm doing my job, not even to the standards it should be!).
E.g. My shyness has prevented me from doing tasks such as talking to people within the workforce, calling people. And having passed my driving test last year, I haven't driven since and that fear about getting on the road is getting to me aswell as I may have to do long distance driving with the job but I don't trust myself to do a simple task like that.
I'm at age, where I need to change as these next years will be the most important in my life personally and professionally.
Anyways, I have rambled on. Any tips, advice and questions much appreciated.
Thank you.
I'll try to make it brief as possible.
For as long as I can remember, I've always been a shy person compared to the confidence that my brothers have exhumed in their outer personalities.
I've always wished I was more like them, or had some of their attributes although it hasn't been a major thought in my mind. However, after graduating from Uni last year and finding a job, I came up with a job closer to my degree which I got. So, having got the job, I'm in a position where I've gone so into my shell that this job is drifting away from me. So much so my low levels of esteem have been noted in formal meetings and they said my performance is different compared to my interview, where I was so confident etc.
At the interview stage, I never expected to get the job so I just went full hog at it. At work, I tend to be isolated and within a group of people who I can't resonate with and end up going to work, and doing my job without creating links with anybody. (I'm doing my job, not even to the standards it should be!).
E.g. My shyness has prevented me from doing tasks such as talking to people within the workforce, calling people. And having passed my driving test last year, I haven't driven since and that fear about getting on the road is getting to me aswell as I may have to do long distance driving with the job but I don't trust myself to do a simple task like that.
I'm at age, where I need to change as these next years will be the most important in my life personally and professionally.
Anyways, I have rambled on. Any tips, advice and questions much appreciated.
Thank you.