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Post by putter65 on Mar 24, 2012 10:03:25 GMT -5
It was her birthday today, I sent her a card and a £15 voucher for Smiths book shop. I also sent a text saying 'happy birthday' - she replied saying 'thanks for the present' but nothing else. I think my interest in her is waning a bit. Yes I will go and see her on Monday (unless she backs out again) but it's not like I'm thinking about it much.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 3, 2012 6:58:20 GMT -5
Went to see her today, it was awfull ! She treats me (and everybody else) like utter shit. I've decided not to contact her again. Hopefully she won't send me a text or anything. She is an awfull, rude, terrible person. It's no wonder her husband left her.
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Post by Karen on Apr 3, 2012 10:41:36 GMT -5
^ goodness, that's quite harsh, is this the woman you were dating for a bit?
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Post by putter65 on Apr 4, 2012 11:04:27 GMT -5
Yes I was dating her in November and December. And then she told me she was going on a family holiday abroad over xmas and new year. I got texts from her, saying she was on the holiday and enjoying it.
It was all a lie, she was actually at home with another man. I got told by a neighbour and a friend of mine. She admitted it initially but later blamed me for over reacting and said it was all my fault.
Since then we have kept in touch with texts and I have gone round her house a few times. Mostly she is in a terrible mood, snapping at everybody including me. I got told today she is still seeing her xmas guy. I won't contact her again.
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Post by ura on Apr 4, 2012 14:16:20 GMT -5
Since then we have kept in touch with texts and I have gone round her house a few times. Mostly she is in a terrible mood, snapping at everybody including me. I got told today she is still seeing her xmas guy. I won't contact her again.That sounds like a good idea.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 4, 2012 14:38:22 GMT -5
Yes it is.
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Post by Karen on Apr 4, 2012 16:18:32 GMT -5
That sounds like a good idea. I agree as well. Good luck Putter.
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Post by putter65 on Apr 5, 2012 9:54:38 GMT -5
Thanks Karen
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Post by putter65 on Apr 18, 2012 16:06:38 GMT -5
I had a coffee with the original woman from the start of the thread.
She arranged it by ringing me up. We talked about everything. I told her how I used to feel. It didn't seem to bother her. I guess she knew. She wants to be friends and wants me to keep in touch. She denied having the affair with my boss. It was all gossip started by jealous women. It was a really frank and honest chat I had with her. We spoke for over an hour. I told her about that other woman who has been messing me about. I don't love her anymore, it's a strange feeling. She is a lovely woman, I really like her but it's not like before. She seemed upset that I had not been in touch. And she wanted to know if we are back friends. She is engaged now to some fella who plays the drums. But she wants me as a friend.
Regarding the woman I was seeing, she sent me a text saying she 'hoped to see me soon' - I am not sure whether to bother or not.
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Post by putter65 on May 21, 2012 8:21:35 GMT -5
An update
The woman I was seeing (who faked her holiday at xmas), I have deleted her mobile number. No contact whatsoever now. I sent her a facebook message telling how I felt. She treated me like dirt and it was getting worse. No point in being friends with her when she was as much fun as toothache.
The golf woman sent me a text saying she wanted to meet up for coffee. That was last week. She never got back to me. Not that bothered.
The flirty woman from last year. She never texts me anymore and I don't see her at work anymore. Again not really bothered.
A couple of customers I have half an eye on. They seem okay, smile at me but i think it's just them been friendly.
I am in contact with a russian woman. She has sent me a few emails and some photo's. Met her on a dating site. It could be a scam or she could be genuine. Her emails are nice though.
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Post by putter65 on Aug 13, 2012 10:51:31 GMT -5
The russian woman was a scammer and I lost £800. It could have been alot worse. She wanted £3,500 and I would have been stood at Heathrow with a bunch of flowers only for her not to turn up.
Glad I saw sense and didn't send the money. She sent me over 80 letters as well. I almost believed it at one point. Very clever, very detailed.
Glad it's over has well. It was a major trauma the whole thing. It would have been nice. She wrote that she loved me and I guess I fell for it. Not used to it you see. Her photo's were nice not rude or anything. She seemed a normal woman.
What can I learn from this ?
Online dating is crap. Anybody woman who says she likes me is lying. Avoid all russians. Avoid women, major pain in the arse. three bad experiences on the run in 18 months. All crap, all of them avoidable if I wasn't so nice. maybe I will learn some day ?
Don't think i will add to this. Not planning on even trying to meet somebody anymore. Women aren't interested. And if they are, they either lie to me or want my money.
Great !
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Post by ura on Aug 13, 2012 15:00:31 GMT -5
That really sucks to hear putter65 but If I were you I wouldn't give up on online dating, just chalk this one up to bad experience.
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Post by putter65 on Aug 13, 2012 15:38:27 GMT -5
no i hate it.
my profile on this english site is a waste of time. Nobody is interested. Ive sent dozens of messages, winks etc. Nothing at all.
I have a profile on this russian site and I get interest left, right and centre. Loads of them saying they are interested, giving me their emails. I can't take any of them seriously, all of them are just scammers after money.
It's a waste of time.
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Post by ura on Aug 14, 2012 15:01:13 GMT -5
Most men on dating sites don't get many responses at all.
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Post by putter65 on Aug 15, 2012 11:56:04 GMT -5
yes i can imagine.
I will give it a miss
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