Post by peterseter3 on Jul 7, 2011 11:30:38 GMT -5
They prefer to just be friends with their foreign classmates. And they're not even interested in making american friends even though they come to AMerica.
I think for them PEOPLE and CULTURE are not really important, maybe it's just a fad to be in another country even if they don't make American friends.
Cause i've tried to be friends with lots of foreign girls, and they always ignore me. Meanwhile they have a bunch of foreign friends(classmates from their english class)
I don't know about you, but if i went to Asia..like China or whatever, I would try to make Chinese friends too.
I talked to this girl somewhere, we had a nice little conversation. She gave me her facebook name. I sent her a message, she sent one message. Thereafter she ignored me and never replied.
Just today i found her in another picture of another foreign student's facebook page. Seems they're friends. and in the picture that girl i met in the bus stop....( WHO IGNORED ME) was there all happy with like 7 foreign friends.
So fine she's ignoring me because she doesn't need me , she has a bunch of frends already. So why not just say it.. Why they keep me feeling like useless piece of crap.
Your been too hard on yourself. It's hard to make friends with a woman. You usually have to have something in common. eg working together or have the same friends. Forget about these two and move on. Plenty of women around.
The simple solution would be for you to try making some American friends instead of trying to pick up foreigners who are only here temporarily anyway. They feel safer with people from their country, and they probably do make friends with Americans in their school...but they are going to feel uncomfortable starting a friendship from some random guy at a bus stop.
Post by peterseter3 on Jul 7, 2011 12:00:35 GMT -5
At work all the American women teased me and though i was weird cause i'm quiet. So how's that gonna ever be a good way to meet friends? it's always been the same at my work places.
Yeah i'll move on. Well i have to admit, i poked about 10 women from facebook and 1 of them , who is foreign, did respond and she has been emailing me and she is interested in being friends and meeting. soon we're meeting. but that's rare. but it's good..
anyways, Yeah Scotty. You say try making American friends. The reason i don't is cause they think i'm retarded. it's true. im slow and most American women my age don't like guys like that. The time i went to dance class the only women that were interested in me and were friendly and began talking with me were old 60 year olds. Usually American old women are much nicer and friendlier than women in their 20's-30's.
And when i say friendlier, i mean they are MORE ACCEPTING of you regardeless of how you speak. Younger women don't accept you in their circle if you don't fit in into the same way of speaking.
It's the same reason why (i'm not white) most white people hang out with white people or they hang out with people who are the same kind of personalities. For example have you seen teh MTV real world people.. they just love friends who speak like them, who argue and nag and gossiip. If they have foreign friends, who don't necessarily speak with the same accent. it's ok, but they still have the same personalities.
You've never seen any of those real worlders with shy people. THey don't like them that's why.
So that's how it is in my experience with American women. They just don't like me cause i don't speak fluent and i don't fit in.