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Jul 14, 2003 14:44:02 GMT -5
Post by spitzig on Jul 14, 2003 14:44:02 GMT -5
Is this a Zen thing? There really is no problem--the problem is that you see a problem.  |
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Jul 14, 2003 14:47:01 GMT -5
Post by glenn miller on Jul 14, 2003 14:47:01 GMT -5
yea.
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Jul 14, 2003 15:03:00 GMT -5
Post by glennmiller on Jul 14, 2003 15:03:00 GMT -5
i have a friend that always tries to tell me to talk more to people and say hi or what ever and smile. he thinks u can just go up to someone and just start talking a way. but for me it is not that way. what do u think.
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Jul 14, 2003 21:57:09 GMT -5
Post by spitzig on Jul 14, 2003 21:57:09 GMT -5
I think you are probably both right. You(and I) are perfectly capable of talking to more people. However, nervousness and other factors make this difficult. Much moreso than for people who are not shy. I know I don't have a problem just saying "hi" or smiling at someone.
It's the stuff(like conversation more than how the weather is) that's supposed to follow that is the difficult part for me. Since I really don't like sitting like an idiot trying to think of something to say, I don't do that.
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Jul 14, 2003 21:59:14 GMT -5
Post by glennmiller on Jul 14, 2003 21:59:14 GMT -5
yea i understand what u mean. for me it is hard to to start a confersation.
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Jul 28, 2003 12:01:44 GMT -5
Post by glennmiller on Jul 28, 2003 12:01:44 GMT -5
me neather.
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Aug 1, 2003 15:54:36 GMT -5
Post by glenn miller on Aug 1, 2003 15:54:36 GMT -5
thanks.
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