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Post by NiteFalz on Sept 8, 2003 13:37:34 GMT -5
My entire life has been destroyed thanks to the evilness of women.
It hurts so much that I'm desperate to be with a women yet they are all incredibly evil pregnant doges.
Also I have been very shy for a very long time in my life, not so much towards men since it was women who brought this shyness on with their acts of evilness. I hate the way they play mind games and always lie and find excuses of why they wouldn’t want to date me. Some women even claim to be shy, this is obvious bull. Shy females simply do not exist. It’s simply women who refuse to talk to most men because they are too picky about who they want to date.
It sickens me.
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Post by Sanity FreeZ0ne on Sept 8, 2003 14:25:12 GMT -5
Hmm..sounds more like avoiding your own problems and (unfairly) blaming females for them.
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Post by Twice-Shy on Sept 8, 2003 14:36:43 GMT -5
I would have to agree with Sanity on this one. It seems that you have a lot of anger inside you. Although you might believe it at the moment, not all women are snakes. I felt incredibly angry when my marriage broke down and that last for a long time, but it is slowly easing away. I'm sure you'll feel the same.
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Post by spiridon on Sept 8, 2003 16:43:28 GMT -5
I think your problem arises from the fact that you treat all women as potential dates, and any woman who talks to you in a nice and friendly way and then does not want to go on a date with you is perceived as evil and manipulative. I understand how you feel, I was like you in the beginning of this year. Every time a woman told me something positive, I thought she meant "you're a loser, try and get me, and then I"ll dump you." Then I learned to treat women just like I would any human being, simply as friends and someone to talk to. If they talk to you nicely, they are just being nice and friendly, like they would be with anyone. Also recognize that many women don't want to date you not because they think you are unattractive, but for other reasons (they are married, in a relationship, lesbian, celibate, very busy). Remember, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. If a woman refuses to go on a date, just look for another woman and don't be discouraged by negative results. Yes, there are shy women. Only it is much harder for a shy man to get in a relationship. Shy women don't need to find dates - dates find them. For women attractiveness largely lies in looks, for men - in confidence. I am shy as well, mainly because I struggle with a notion that other people don't like me. A good psychologist and dating expert said that we all have inner conversations in our heads, and if those conversations are negative, we feel that way about ourselves. So find something positive about yourself. If you can't do it yourself, go to www.emode.com, take a test, and they will tell you all your positive qualities. Then try to leave out the negative thoughts. If you're having a hard time finding a date, I suggest you try the Internet - it is well worth a shot. And it won't work if you meet a woman and assume she is evil, so you definitely have to change your opinion about women. |
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Post by Ana on Sept 12, 2003 12:56:53 GMT -5
there are a lot of evil girls out there.
on behalf of my gender Nitefallz, i apologize. i hate that there's so many giddy, stuck up, brats out there givin us girls a bad rep.
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Post by moogle on Sept 12, 2003 18:54:15 GMT -5
i don't believe in pure good or evil. however, there are plenty of people out there that i would like to kick the crap out of. but life is too short to spend it worrying about people i don't like.
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Post by NiteFalz on Sept 15, 2003 15:23:58 GMT -5
i don't believe in pure good or evil. however, there are plenty of people out there that i would like to kick the crap out of. but life is too short to spend it worrying about people i don't like. Why are you even at this site? You call yourself shy? You have a boyfriend and a job which requires communication with people on a daily basis. Tell us, Moogle WHY did you come to this site? Falz. |
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Post by urbanspaceman on Sept 15, 2003 16:33:06 GMT -5
Is it just me Nitefalz, or are you just trying to provoke a reaction by finding fault with people you don't even know? And yes, I realise I don't know you at all, but I consider myself to be shy and haven't had the greatest of success (if any) with the opposite sex , but I don't feel the need to berate all women because of it. I admit there are some people who can be cruel and judgemental concerning someone who is shy, but life's too short to worry about them.
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Post by ASolitarySoul on Sept 15, 2003 22:38:33 GMT -5
Is it just me Nitefalz, or are you just trying to provoke a reaction by finding fault with people you don't even know? Provoking reactions in forums is his favorite pastime. Worrying about them is what he lives for - trust me on this. Go ahead and tell him that he can’t judge ALL women based on the actions of a few - I could use the entertainment. Solitary Soul all about me -> users3.ev1.net/~solitarysoul/-------------------------------------------------------- |
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Post by ASolitarySoul on Sept 15, 2003 22:41:39 GMT -5
Why are you even at this site? You call yourself shy? You have a boyfriend and a job which requires communication with people on a daily basis. Tell us, Moogle WHY did you come to this site? Falz. Why do YOU come to this site? Solitary Soul all about me -> users3.ev1.net/~solitarysoul/-------------------------------------------------------- |
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Post by moogle on Sept 16, 2003 18:55:08 GMT -5
Why are you even at this site? You call yourself shy? You have a boyfriend and a job which requires communication with people on a daily basis. Tell us, Moogle WHY did you come to this site? Falz. sure i'll tell you! first of all, just because i have a job that requires communication with people on a daily basis does not by any means imply that i LIKE it. i have to do the job because i have to earn a living somehow. i do plan on going back to school and studying forensics, so maybe i won't have to communicate with living people so often. i am at this site because i am shy, anti-social and have suffered from years of depression (though that seems to be drawing to a close *crosses fingers*). i find it is easier to communicate with people that are more like me, so i am here because sometimes i do feel the need to be social (it's pretty rare) and it's easier to come here than to try to face the world outside that is teeming with outgoing people. just because someone is shy, doesn't mean they are unfriendly or can't make connections with others, it just means that they need the right circumstances for that to happen. |
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Post by angelka on Sept 22, 2003 2:46:08 GMT -5
Well, I have to agree with you about a few things...first of all, there ARE alot of women who are mean and nasty and there ARE women who will flirt of whatever with a certain guy who they have absolutely no intention of ever going out with, they just do it for their own amusement...i guess to make them feel better about themselves or whatever. And of coarse, there are the women who walk around and you could swear you can almost hear what they're thinking, "Oh my gosh...I am sooooo pretty. Everyone, just look at me and how pretty I am."
But in our defense, there are plenty plenty of good ones and even plenty of shy ones.
You may not want to hear this, but maybe your attitude has something to do with your problem. You tend to give of a "vibe" if you will to the opposite sex and what you think about them, even if you don't realize it. Even when you're trying to be nice or sociable or whatever, if deep down you hate women, you'll appear fake, or send up a red flag.
I used to have the reverse problem with guys. I would think and often say, "Oh, I hate men...selfish pigs!!" And consequently, I remained single, which made me even more furious and just confirmed what I thought about them.
But, then one day I had a relevation..."It can't be ALL men! Maybe the problem is me." And I decided to reevaluate myself and my attitude and tried to start changing it.
It worked like a charm. I started dating again and eventually got married.
Maybe you are just getting over a bad break up or something, if so, time really does heal many wounds and soon your attitude will improve.
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