I haven't had that many crushes on girls. Up until the age of maybe 17-18 I was far more interested in football than girls. I went to an all boys school so I virtually had never spoken to a girl until I went to University and started a part-time job simultaneously in a supermarket.
I had a crush on a lovely quiet girl who was in the same class as me at uni. It was my first class of the day and. I noticed that she always turned up early so I started turning up even earlier so we could have a chat. Nothing came of it though. But it did get me out of bed for those morning lectures. The other girl worked in the surpermarket and she was a lovely, quiet girl again. You can tell what type of girl I like!
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I haven't had a first love actually. I would say I have had 2 crushes. But my first crush was a guy I went through elementary and high school with. My mom and his mom sorta knew each other. Anyways, he would tease and joke with me and it was fun and nice Nothing came of it.
I guess it's the little things that keep you going. :-)
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Post by unionjackattack86 on May 13, 2003 14:14:26 GMT -5
The first crush I had was when I was about 8, I didn't know at the time that I liked the girl but I was drawn/attracted to her and didn't know why and only realised once I had grown older. One of my brothers was in the army at the time and stationed in Germany and we went on holiday over there to see him and the girl I liked was one of the other soildiers daughters. As for first love, I don't think I have fallen in love yet.
First real crush when I was 17, on a girl who was in my sister's class, a year below me. I can't remember whether or not she knew, but I did tell other people about it. It was obviously unrequited and I remember telling my mum about it, had to really as I felt sick a lot of the time, couldn't eat properly for many weeks, and even worse, actually liked Lionel Ritchie's "Hello". Before this I didn't associate myself with dating. When I was about 15, I think I was voted either last or 2nd last by the girls in my class in terms of which boy they would most like to go out with. They said I was too shy. This put off any ideas I may have had about considering myself interesting to anyone of the opposite sex.
yeah i had a major crush on Britney a few years back, had posters on the wall and used to dream and think about her alot, ahh those were the days.. days b4 justin ruined my life *cries*. come to think of it, i still do like her, if ur reading this britney, i love you and i wanna be with u
Post by Michael1973 on May 16, 2003 12:53:36 GMT -5
When I was in 9th grade, there was this girl who sat behind me in all but one class, whom I liked a lot. The sad part is, I was 99% sure she liked me too, but was way too shy to do anything about it. In those days, I waited for people to talk to me first before I'd speak, and so many people took that to mean a lack of interest. I recall several incidents when she'd attempt to be friendly with me and in most cases I gave the bare minimum response possible. After only 2 years at my school, she was gone and I never knew where she went after that. I remember her fondly to this day mostly because, despite my having liked many other girls in my time, she was the only one I knew for certain liked me back.
Years later, I made several attempts to find her via the internet with no success. I was mostly curious to see what became of her and if she'd remember me. Alas, no luck. She almost seems like a figment of my imagination now!!!
I don't think I've ever had a crush on a celebrity. How could I? I don't know them. I can drool over them if they are attractive, but that's no crush.
My first crush was probably in the 2 or 3 grade--made one half-attempt and bombed. I had plenty of crushes through junior high and high school. Haven't been attracted to/had a crush on very many women since.
My first love, I was about 23 or 24. I was head over heals for her. It didn't last long, though. She dumped me to go back to the boyfriend who'd beat her up.
As far as guys having sports to busy them so not having crushes, I was never interested in sports. After getting older, I realized this hurt me with other guys socially, though.