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Post by wee on Apr 1, 2004 2:02:03 GMT -5
There is this girl i have liked forever and i always look at her and stuff to let her know. Well since im too shy to talk to her (shes really shy too) i had a friend of mine talk to her. The first time my friend talked about me to her she asked if i liked her and if i was going to talk to her. But just the other day my friend talked to her again and asked her if i could have her phone number. She said no and i was told she acted kind of snobby. I think just thought she was being mean but she was just being shy but i dont know.  |
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Post by Boblouie58 on Apr 1, 2004 2:20:51 GMT -5
Its possible she won't give her phone number to your friend as she isn't sure its for him or for you? Since your friend talked to her and she indicated she was interested in you liking her, this gives you and "opening" for you to go up and talk to her. Go ahead..what do you have to lose...nothing..absolutely nothing. So you go and try and talk to her. You and she need to talk and if she talked to your friend she is not as shy as you feel she is. Good luck, she won't bite you.  |
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Post by CaryGrant on Apr 1, 2004 17:39:15 GMT -5
Listen to Boblouie! This woman
She may have been insulted because you sent your friend to talk to her a second time even after she flat out told him she was interested. Meaning, she is taking all the risk. Go talk to her, asap.
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Post by wee on Apr 1, 2004 18:51:54 GMT -5
my friend is a girl , my name was mentioned she asked why and my friend told her i liked her. Then she asked if i was going to talk to her. She never really flat out said anything, and now my friend says she acted mean about it
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Post by Boblouie58 on Apr 2, 2004 1:13:01 GMT -5
Same answer...go talk to her. Your friend says she acted mean.....I doubt this..probably more like "why"? Shy people try and "read all kinds of things into what another person thinks, etc.". None of us are mind readers, and if you want to get to know someone...go make your move. You don't say how old you are but I'm guessing under 20. A shy person is so much afraid of being rejected. If you aren't shy you may be rejected....but you will never know for sure..if you continue sending your girl friend to "pave the way" for you. YOU and you alone....need to go ask. You will either get a yes or a no response. This is a natural response, as not everyone will like everyone but most good people will be respectful and be nice about saying yes or no. I have tried every way there is to meet a girl. You need to build your self-confidence and going up and asking today..is better than continuing to wait to see if you can find out from friends. So, go do it sooner than later and after you find out what you want to know; ask another girl to get over your shyness...ok?  |
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