Post by Orionation on Oct 25, 2004 21:59:02 GMT -5
I have severe social anxiety, and although I go to a huge school, i very rarely like more than one girl at a time but when i do like a girl I usually like her a whole lot.. i guess its just the way i am. I cant help it but my mind is picky about what turns me off.
I 'met' (she spoke in a small group i was in.. although not directly to me) a very pretty girl last week that i really want to get to know, but i dont know what to do. I hardly see her at all because i dont have any classes with her, but every now and then i pass her in the hallway. She hasn't noticed me yet.. and i dont think she remembers me.. so i really doubt she would say hi.. so i need to.. but its too hard for me. I feel like i dont know her and it would be odd to just say odd to a 'stranger' or even to go up to her and introduce myself.. especially since the only times i see her she is either talking with a friend or in her car after school.. and i dont wanna go up to her car and knock on her window to introduce myself...
This is the problem i always have.. just getting started in relationships and getting them going. Ive never had a girlfriend.. not because girls dont like me, but because im too nervous to even say hi to them unless if they say hi to me first. I keep wanting to wait for them to initiate the conversations and to keep talking to me although i dont talk much.. until i get comfortable enough around her to talk more myself and eventually overcome my shyness around her. But by that time 99% of girls would lose interest in me.. if they ever were interested in the first place.
I feel weird just going up to a girl I dont even really know and saying hi or introducing myself.. especially when I dont see her but about 10 seconds passing her in the hallway every other day or so.. depending on how quickly I get out of class. I dont even know if this girl has a boyfriend or not.. but if she doesn't I would be suprised and I would have to move fast cus she is very very pretty. I dont know what to do. I have too much trouble talking to people when I first meet them especially.
When we were in that small group last week and I saw her.. the reason I was there was because I was voted as shyest for senior superlatives and she was the one taking the pictures. Her and her friend were talking and she said that she is shy too and her friend laughed and said she isnt shy at all, but then refering back to her friend she said that she is shy when she first meets people. Ive seen her 2 times since then.. one of the times I was pretty far behind her, and the other time was just today and she was just behind me.. I heard her talking to a friend. As soon as they said bye she started walking faster and passed me, not saying anything. I dont know if she was just shy as well or if she even noticed me and is just not interested or what. I dont know why she would be interested anyway.. she doesn't even know me. ERRR i dont know what to do.
I 'met' (she spoke in a small group i was in.. although not directly to me) a very pretty girl last week that i really want to get to know, but i dont know what to do. I hardly see her at all because i dont have any classes with her, but every now and then i pass her in the hallway. She hasn't noticed me yet.. and i dont think she remembers me.. so i really doubt she would say hi.. so i need to.. but its too hard for me. I feel like i dont know her and it would be odd to just say odd to a 'stranger' or even to go up to her and introduce myself.. especially since the only times i see her she is either talking with a friend or in her car after school.. and i dont wanna go up to her car and knock on her window to introduce myself...
This is the problem i always have.. just getting started in relationships and getting them going. Ive never had a girlfriend.. not because girls dont like me, but because im too nervous to even say hi to them unless if they say hi to me first. I keep wanting to wait for them to initiate the conversations and to keep talking to me although i dont talk much.. until i get comfortable enough around her to talk more myself and eventually overcome my shyness around her. But by that time 99% of girls would lose interest in me.. if they ever were interested in the first place.
I feel weird just going up to a girl I dont even really know and saying hi or introducing myself.. especially when I dont see her but about 10 seconds passing her in the hallway every other day or so.. depending on how quickly I get out of class. I dont even know if this girl has a boyfriend or not.. but if she doesn't I would be suprised and I would have to move fast cus she is very very pretty. I dont know what to do. I have too much trouble talking to people when I first meet them especially.
When we were in that small group last week and I saw her.. the reason I was there was because I was voted as shyest for senior superlatives and she was the one taking the pictures. Her and her friend were talking and she said that she is shy too and her friend laughed and said she isnt shy at all, but then refering back to her friend she said that she is shy when she first meets people. Ive seen her 2 times since then.. one of the times I was pretty far behind her, and the other time was just today and she was just behind me.. I heard her talking to a friend. As soon as they said bye she started walking faster and passed me, not saying anything. I dont know if she was just shy as well or if she even noticed me and is just not interested or what. I dont know why she would be interested anyway.. she doesn't even know me. ERRR i dont know what to do.