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Post by reallyconfused2004 on Oct 27, 2004 19:31:02 GMT -5
i have like this one guy for a very long time lets call him BOB but i dont know if he likes me and i am afraid of rejection........ If i was too ask him if he likes me what is the best way to do it? well we walk the same way home and the other day i was in front of him and he came up to me like he wanted to talk that soulds like no big deal but he never has done this becuz he is extremely shy well his b days on friday should i ask him out or what also what r signals that i can look for to tell whether he likes me remember he is extremely shy if i talk to him its all yes or no aswers Does he like me or not?
Thanks in advance for all your answers tell me anything i just need a lot of help with this i have thought long and hard about it and i just dont know
have any ?'s just ask me
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Derrick
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Post by Derrick on Oct 27, 2004 20:00:42 GMT -5
Well if he's extremely shy he may not make eye contact with you at all. If you notice him suddenly look toward the ground when you approach him it's a good sign he's interested. Otherwise just look for the large pupils and general submissive look that a shy person would have around someone they are interested in. He may even have a cold or emotionless look on his face because he'll be afraid to let his feelings show to just anyone.
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Post by reallyconfused2004 on Oct 27, 2004 20:54:24 GMT -5
so looking at the ground is a good thing cause that is what he does also
the other day we were like 5 inches apart and he kept loking back at me and then he would look at the ground but he didnt say anything is that normal for shy people
thanks for the advice if u have any more plz. write it cause i still need more help
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Post by Deja Vu on Oct 27, 2004 22:01:09 GMT -5
Um...deja vu. I don't want to be mean, but how many times can you ask the same exact question, reallyconfused2004? I'd read through the responses that everyone has given you all over this board. I'm not trying to be rude. Honest. You don't need any more advice on how to tell if this boy likes you. Just go get your man!
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Post by reallyconfused2004 on Oct 27, 2004 22:07:23 GMT -5
its not mean ure right i should just take a chance and find out myself this may sound stupid but i think out of all the advice i have gotten yours is the one that i have to totally agree on i guess all i need was someone like u to say that
thanks a bunch everyone!!!!!
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Post by sushiboat on Oct 28, 2004 0:31:40 GMT -5
You should approach the problem as an outgoing guy would. He doesn't worry about whether the girl likes him. He is going to talk to her, and by the time he is done, she will like him. Then he will ask her out. He doesn't think what if this happens, what if that happens. He just moves forward, goes for what he wants, and either gets it or shrugs and moves on.
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