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Post by MeLa5 on Oct 28, 2004 19:55:06 GMT -5
hey! whats up? so tomorrow i may be having my b/f over. And we havent done anything and im taking it in myself to start the move....yea..im a girl making the first move...not incredibly weird...but maybe a little....i dont know if i can....is there anything i can do?....any suggestions? :S.....any help would be greatly appreciated!
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Post by Police Academy on Oct 28, 2004 20:09:10 GMT -5
Watch “Police Academy” (1984 Movie) and do what the hot-blonde-cop did to the student who kept sneaking into the girl’s rooms at night for a lots of hot action.
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Post by MeLa5 on Oct 28, 2004 20:25:18 GMT -5
yea fuck it...i just invited him to come but he cant cuz hes grounded....like UGH! im soo mad...i dont think he even wants to come...he pisses me off soo much sometimes....im trying to make this reltionship work for us but fuck him! ERRG! okay so im needing some comforting words now....or some advice on how i DONT strangle him tomorrow at school....do u think hes losing interest?
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Post by shy 777 on Oct 29, 2004 12:49:16 GMT -5
Why can't you just tell him what you want and make him do it? If he doesn't do it, then dump him. There's nothing wrong with telling a guy to cuddle, hold hands or say something like "kiss me you fool." If he is very shy then give him the green light! Give him the go ahead! Make it easy for him to know what you want... Tell him!
You are doing him a favor[/i] by doing this if he is very shy, NOT the other way around.
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Post by MeLa5 on Oct 29, 2004 14:27:24 GMT -5
well i wrote him a letter the other night and gave it to him at school right in the morning...(later that day he told me he read it but never said anything like a reply or anything to the letter).....and i dont know but since then he has kinda been further from me....like he doesnt talk as much, or walk by my locker at the end of the day like he usually does.....whats going on? and as u say just to tell him what i want....how exactly do i do that? i just dont know....:S i want things to change but i dont know how to make them change....it feels as though we are falling apart....in fact i cried today because i think hes going to break up with me anytime.....and i DONT want to break up....i like him sooo incredibly much.....
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Post by shy 777 on Oct 29, 2004 15:38:18 GMT -5
He could be retreating because he's afraid to advance and he realizes that he can't just stay with you like this. I really don't know his situation and only know what you've told me though. If he has known you for that while then you'd think he might know you enough to make a move on you. But again, I don't know the frequency of your dates or the how close you guys are. How old are you both?
I see nothing wrong with a girl making a move on a shy guy. It is a turn-on for the shy guy for his girl friend to do that.
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Post by Mela5 on Oct 29, 2004 17:12:28 GMT -5
okay weve known eachother since like last may. I am 17 and he is 16. (yea a year younger than me...but i like him A LOT) so when u say he cant stay with me like this...does this mean he wants to break up with me you think?.... and the frequency of our dates...we dont go out very often...he gets grounded quite a bit and i work a lot....hey shy777...do u have msn?
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Post by shy 777 on Oct 31, 2004 14:57:25 GMT -5
Yes I have MSN. I gave you an email.
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Post by Mela5 on Nov 1, 2004 20:09:47 GMT -5
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Post by shy 777 on Nov 1, 2004 22:42:23 GMT -5
hey does anyone have msn? if so wanna chat on there as well? my addy is spongebobrox82@hotmail.com I sent it to this hotmail address. I copied and pasted the address. It should have went through. Did you have a high filter on at the time? Check your "Junk-Email-Filter" and ensure that it is on "Enhanced" not "Exclusive."
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Post by Mela5 on Nov 2, 2004 15:42:56 GMT -5
hey! i just went and checked that account and i had to reset it all over agian because i havent used it for a while...could you resend the email? or just add me? :S....its up to you thanks
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Post by shy 777 on Nov 2, 2004 17:06:15 GMT -5
ok I recent it.
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Post by MeLa5 on Nov 3, 2004 19:16:54 GMT -5
Hey! wow i read the email! thanks.....and i talked it over with my best friend and she agrees COMPLETELY with you....so im gonna try and do something this weekend with him.....i cant thank you enough tho! your words of wisdom were super! thank you sooo much!
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Post by shy 777 on Nov 4, 2004 0:30:39 GMT -5
I’m glad it helped!
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Post by Mela5 on Nov 4, 2004 13:51:02 GMT -5
Hey! so today is our two months....and i just got home from school....i didnt see him at school today...he was there...i just didnt get a chance to talk to him....i havent talked to him since Tuesday, and even then i didnt get to talk to him for that long...it just seems that we are fading...and its really bothering me....wow im sorry it seems that like everytime you help me something else happens.....i just wont be happy until something changes in this relationship...i was there was a way that i could let him know that he has nothing to be afraid of....and not to be shy anymore.... ....oh well i guess theres nothing i can really do about it....lets just hope that time will make it work out good.... oh well anyways...hopefully stuff works out...:S...i have to call him tonight to see if he wants to do something tomorrow.....we havent hung out Forever! and if he does come over....hopefully it will do....and we can move on....lol know what i mean?....hah aalright well thanks again for all the help! sory im such a pain luv MeL
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