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Post by gary on Nov 8, 2004 20:35:37 GMT -5
Asking out someone on a date is just like applying to a job. You don’t just send your resume out to one company only! You send your resume out to thousands of companies and hope, just hope that one will interview you! So talk to these women and if they reject you then they are nothing but a blip before your bloop!
What’s that you say? You care what a woman thinks? I got news for you buddy. We are taller, bigger, stronger, faster, smarter, less emotional and more rational than women in general. They are our inferior! So what? So buttons!
To women, I say fear not!
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Post by Max Power on Nov 8, 2004 21:07:01 GMT -5
What’s that you say? You care what a woman thinks? I got news for you buddy. We are taller, bigger, stronger, faster, smarter, less emotional and more rational than women in general. They are our inferior! So what? So buttons! This is gonna be fun to see the responses this one gets! ;D I got news for you buddy, caveman days ended before Jesus made his debut. I may be in the minority when it comes to this, because I know a lot of guys who feel this way. But I don't. Besides, I want someone who is my equal, a woman who walks with me instead of behind me, unless she wants to pinch my butt. I want my ideal partner. Yes, I do feel inferior to women, which is why I cannot approach them, so I know I need work. But I would feel worse if I walked around with the "I am man hear me roar!" attitude that I am vastly superior to the opposite sex. In the 50s, maybe. But we are in a new era. And I happen to know a woman who is taller, bigger, stronger, less emotional and more rational than I am. The only reason why I'm faster than her is because she has a clubbed foot. And what does "so buttons" mean?
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Post by ratt on Nov 8, 2004 21:37:44 GMT -5
What’s that you say? You care what a woman thinks? I got news for you buddy. We are taller, bigger, stronger, faster, smarter, less emotional and more rational than women in general. They are our inferior! So what? So buttons! I would love to get to know you!! And I am a woman. ;D
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Post by canisay182 on Nov 8, 2004 22:42:15 GMT -5
To women, I say fear not! yeah, your right, you dont need to fear women because your never going to be around one long enough for that. the only women that would ever put up with you are ones that have serious self esteem problems, cause no one else would put up with being emotionally abused. its arrogant guys like you who are inferior to everyone else, men AND women.
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Post by gary on Nov 8, 2004 22:44:02 GMT -5
This is gonna be fun to see the responses this one gets! ;D LOL – the responses will be interesting to say the least~! I got news for you buddy. Women do not want someone they can walk all over. They do not want someone who they feel is inferior to them. They want a President, a General, a Chief, not a Pond or a Push Over. If you really feel that way, then you’re a shit out of luck. You need to change your attitude. You can feel superior to women and never tell them about it. You don’t have to tell them. You need to feel that way. It will come off as confidence – and they will like you for it obviously. It means “so what” or “big deal.”
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Post by gary on Nov 8, 2004 22:44:19 GMT -5
I would love to get to know you!! And I am a woman. ;D
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Post by gary on Nov 8, 2004 22:45:54 GMT -5
yeah, your right, you dont need to fear women because your never going to be around one long enough for that. the only women that would ever put up with you are ones that have serious self esteem problems, cause no one else would put up with being emotionally abused. its arrogant guys like you who are inferior to everyone else, men AND women. It's all in the attitude. This is what women like: confidence. If you feel inferior or their equal, then they will not see confidence. Actually I am married now.
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Post by canisay182 on Nov 8, 2004 22:54:08 GMT -5
It's all in the attitude. This is what women like: confidence. If you feel inferior or their equal, then they will not see confidence. Actually I am married now. i feel bad for your wife then. its really sad to me when women dont see a problem with being disrespected by men, especially someone they are in a relationship with. you may think that that say confidence, but to me it says jackass. and great job all you men who realize that women diserve as much respect as men
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Post by gary on Nov 8, 2004 22:58:32 GMT -5
i feel bad for your wife then. its really sad to me when women dont see a problem with being disrespected by men, especially someone they are in a relationship with. you may think that that say confidence, but to me it says jackass. and great job all you men who realize that women diserve as much respect as men So would you rather date a boy who is inferior to you or superior to you? Equal is not a choice in this question.
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Post by Joe on Nov 8, 2004 23:04:10 GMT -5
That’s true. From my experience, when I respected women, she is indifferent to pleasing you. When I didn’t act like I respected or worshiped women (didn’t mean I disrespected her though) she would go out of her way to please me so that I would like her better.
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Post by canisay182 on Nov 8, 2004 23:11:06 GMT -5
Equal is not a choice in this question. that seems to be your problem. why dont you think that men and women can be equal? if i was choosing a guy to date, i wouldnt try to define whether he was better or worse then me. i would think about if he will respect me. I would want a guy who is not only a boyfriend to me but would be like my best friend. Someone who i could share everything with and that would always be there for me. to me thats one of the biggest parts of having a relationship and being in love. doesnt that kind of mutual respect and trust appeal to you at all? i mean i have really low self esteem but i would never date a guy who treated me like i was worthless and lower than him.
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Post by gary on Nov 8, 2004 23:36:04 GMT -5
Don't get me wrong. You don't treat her like shit. You just do NOT act like she is better than you or you are not worthy of her. Otherwise she will believe it and dump your ass. You have to act aloof like you don't care like Joe said. You act like you can handle anything she can't and she will love you for it.
Many shy people like Max put women on a pedestal. They worship women. That is a huge mistake. If you have to think about it this way then do it because it is better than thinking that you are inferior to women because they will not like it.
And by know means am I saying let them know this by telling them. That would obviously be a mistake. You just have to ACT it.
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Post by sushiboat on Nov 9, 2004 2:36:52 GMT -5
Asking out someone on a date is just like applying to a job. You don’t just send your resume out to one company only! You send your resume out to thousands of companies and hope, just hope that one will interview you! So talk to these women and if they reject you then they are nothing but a blip before your bloop! What’s that you say? You care what a woman thinks? I got news for you buddy. We are taller, bigger, stronger, faster, smarter, less emotional and more rational than women in general. They are our inferior! So what? So buttons! To women, I say fear not! I agree with the first paragraph. Finding the right person is a numbers game. Also, the more you try, the better you are likely to become. I strongly disagree with the second paragraph. It's good to be able to shrug off rejection and move on to the next person. But there is no need to think of the woman (or women in general) as inferior. Needing to put her down means that she has gotten to you just as much as if you worshipped her.
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Post by lsdima4 on Nov 9, 2004 9:34:47 GMT -5
These are some of the things girls said to me "When you asked me out did you mean as friends or out out...in that case I can't because ..." "I really enjoy talking to you, do you want to be friends?", "Your reputation in school was geniunly nice guy" "I enjoy spending time with you but I just don't feel a man in you"
Women don't want to be involved with nice guys in THAT WAY. Sure you say you do and all but when it comes to action the nice guy is just not good enough. You want a man who roars.
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Post by Kitten on Nov 9, 2004 12:24:50 GMT -5
So the only way you can feel confident is to marry someone who you feel is inferior to you? That's conidence to you? It smacks of insecurity and extremely low self-worth to me. You obviously have little respect for your wife and that sucks for her. This is someone you love--don't you think that's quite a bit fucked up?
It is true that women generally want don't someone they can walk all over. I mean, some chicks get off on that, but that's just as bad. There should be mutual respect. You should be best friends with your significant other.
There's a difference between worshipping a woman ad treating her with respect.
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