Post by penny on Nov 21, 2004 10:44:45 GMT -5
i met a guy in college and he approached me first and went out of his way for me to notice him. he asked me a lot of personal questions like if i'm married , bf want children and what my plans are after college which he asked more than once. he would flirt by smiling and winking with his face always lit up and he would stare at me a lot on campus, he would do this at school where people could see. he always wanted to know what i did over the weekends. he would always let me know where and when his next class was. i would ask him what he did over the holidays and he said spent them alone does not get to spend holidays much. ok the problem is i found out from someone that he is married. the guy works a 3rd shift 30 hrs and takes 16-20 hrs at school from morning to afternoon then sleeps noon til evening and spends time with his guy friends by hanging out. so he does not spend much time at home and he lives with his parents which i know can be hard. he lives in a new area which at one time he lived alone, which i think is strange but he does not live alone now. but this guy never push me into anything like most married men would do to a single woman. he did hint that he was interested by hinting lunch or hang out like for coffee but our school/ work schedule were different. so why would a guy act this way towards me could it be that he is unhappy at home which i know that's his problem cause everybody at school said the way he acted that he liked me and even with his friends around this guy would flirt with me and they would asked me questions like if i was involved with someone. i 'm just afraid now to talk to him i ignore him but since i want talk with he just stares and tries to get my attention and looks very sad like he 's sorry. he acted like he wanted to say something and just could not say it when i would ask he looked like he was about to cry it just really hurts at first i was very angry but now i do not know what to do i still have these feelings but their not has strong for him.