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Post by Sweet Pea on Sept 12, 2007 9:39:32 GMT -5
have you ever had a misunderstanding interfere in a relationship that was important to you in a major way? i mean like someone gets paranoid and thinks you've disrespected them in some way or done something mean behind their back...when you didn't at all? or like somebody tells them something to make them suspicious of your motives? i find this sort of thing so discouraging. it reminds me how disappointing people can be.  |
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Post by iroseiroared3 on Sept 13, 2007 6:27:03 GMT -5
I'm not sure if I've had that happen to me, but whatever happened, I'm sorry for it. If someone told them something bad about you, well, that just sucks. This person will have to find out on his/her own that you aren't what they're thinking. I'm sure throughout your relationship they'll learn they can trust you, and that what other people say isn't always right. If this is the case in your situation. Anyway, I hope everything works out for you.  |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Sept 13, 2007 18:10:29 GMT -5
I'm not sure if I've had that happen to me, but whatever happened, I'm sorry for it. If someone told them something bad about you, well, that just sucks. This person will have to find out on his/her own that you aren't what they're thinking. I'm sure throughout your relationship they'll learn they can trust you, and that what other people say isn't always right. If this is the case in your situation. Anyway, I hope everything works out for you. thanks. i dunno though. once paranoia kicks in, it's kinda hard to undo the effects.  |
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Post by annaa on Sept 13, 2007 19:00:13 GMT -5
I've never been in a relationship.
However I do experiences this with friendships a lot and it's really frustrating. Teenage girls are bitchy and it's difficult for someone to believe that you're genuine.
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Post by Paulinus on Sept 13, 2007 19:06:04 GMT -5
I tend to be worrying about misunderstandings that it turns out never even happened Nothing close to relationship stuff though  |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Sept 13, 2007 20:25:07 GMT -5
i'm sure you all have relationships with somebody...family, friends, co-workers. i didn't just mean romantic-type relationships. |
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Post by pnoopiepnats on Sept 14, 2007 3:32:16 GMT -5
Yes it has happened several times.
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Post by ridder on Sept 14, 2007 23:59:15 GMT -5
Have you questioned their motives?
I cannot recall a specific encounter at the moment, if I do I'll come back and post it. Also, I wouldn't take your situation and extrapolate it to 'people.'
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Post by Sweet Pea on Sept 15, 2007 0:31:45 GMT -5
Have you questioned their motives? no. |
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Post by swwg on Sept 21, 2007 2:56:29 GMT -5
a good friend is someone you open almost all of yourself to. Open the communication lines, and sweep anything under the rug, deal with it now and have a hand how it festers instead of letting it be molded by forces that are out of your control... naw whaddamean?
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Post by Sweet Pea on Sept 21, 2007 8:41:02 GMT -5
a good friend is someone you open almost all of yourself to. Open the communication lines, and sweep anything under the rug, deal with it now and have a hand how it festers instead of letting it be molded by forces that are out of your control... naw whaddamean? perhaps people have forgotten how to be good friends then? too often they take something you trust them with and use it against you in some way. that's what makes being friends with people you work with scary. if you trust someone you shouldn't, it can affect your ability to survive. it would be nice to be psychic. |
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