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Post by phoenixferret on Dec 31, 2007 19:37:34 GMT -5
thats not true she will enjoy sex and romance just fine when the 'right' guy comes along, someone who will stir things up a bit she just can't imagine cooking being fun with some boring nice guy, thats all I really don't see how the whole "boring nice guy" line comes into this at all, or how anyone can say that she WILL enjoy sex and romance with an exciting guy, as though you have exclusive access to her mind. She may enjoy those things more than she suspects, in large part because it can be difficult to imagine being in love or lust unless you're actually in those states; or she may in fact have a very low sex drive; or she could just be neurotic and voicing her fears and doubts to a friend; or she could be bitter over a bad break-up. Or it could be--and probably is--rather complicated. It's just ridiculous to disregard specific information in favor of pet stereotypes.
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Post by skyhint on Jan 4, 2008 22:34:53 GMT -5
you guys talking just makes me want to puke. Puke everywhere. Just puke!
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Post by HybridMoment on Jan 5, 2008 12:18:24 GMT -5
you guys talking just makes me want to puke. Puke everywhere. Just puke! I've often felt the relationship category section on this site should have a disclaimer, "This category is not meant for those wanting to avoid nausea and vomiting."
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Post by carboncopy on Jan 17, 2008 2:24:58 GMT -5
you guys talking just makes me want to puke. Puke everywhere. Just puke! Why such strong emotions? Care to elaborate? It's not all fun and games, relatioships, and it is important to men especially, who have to go to great lengths to find any kind of romantic (cross-gender) relationship. How do you feel about involuntary celibacy and being deprived of any intimate human contact?
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Post by skyhint on Jan 17, 2008 15:11:04 GMT -5
you guys talking just makes me want to puke. Puke everywhere. Just puke! Why such strong emotions? Care to elaborate? It's not all fun and games, relatioships, and it is important to men especially, who have to go to great lengths to find any kind of romantic (cross-gender) relationship. How do you feel about involuntary celibacy and being deprived of any intimate human contact? The original post, I believe, was a female asking whether or not her female friend was normal. Not a man who was trying to attract a girl who was not interested. Thats the main thing thats bugging me. I've just been so over whelmed with the WTF feeling that it is much easier to vomit my disagreement than take the time to explain it.
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Post by Ram150 on Mar 13, 2008 21:40:25 GMT -5
I have to say you guys may have been a lil harsh on shay. It sounds like someone who's just concerned about her friend and there's nothing more to it (eg jealousy, etc). I have a friend who's like that, always eager to "help", even though there is nothing really to help with. I guess most quiet ppl get that all the time. No big deal.
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