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Post by rammsteinrainbow on Oct 15, 2003 4:03:14 GMT -5
I am seriously annoyed wuth my flatmate. A week ago I told him I was bisexual and asked him to keep it quiet as I wanted to tell our other flatmate when I was ready. So, I go home for the weekend, and when I return I discover he blabbed to the other girl. That I could handle, but then I find out he's blabbed to all his mates as well. I'm really hurt he did that. My sexuality is not something he can go announcing to all the world. Is it ok for me to feel like this?
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Post by Twice-Shy on Oct 15, 2003 5:35:28 GMT -5
Definietly. It's a natural reaction. Your friend has broke your confidence which is unforgivable especially as you shared something so personal.
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Post by spitzig on Oct 15, 2003 23:45:29 GMT -5
You don't have control over feelings. You feel something or don't. Asking if it's ok to feel something is like asking if it's ok for a nail to go through wood if you hit it with a hammer. It will--whether it is ok is irrelevant.
What you have control over is your response TO those feelings. One response I'd have is to not trust that roommate. If it bothered me enough, I might look for another flatmate.
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