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Post by prawnie on Jan 10, 2004 12:07:04 GMT -5
ive recently split up from my bf, and im devastated, i met him via the net this time last year, we just semed to argue all the time, the main problem started wen he started uni last year (he's 18 and im 28), we hardly saw each other, and couldnt cope with not seeing each other,he has had some problems at home to which havent halped, im not saying its any bodies fault it happened, it just did
i love this guy much, and want him back, i still talk to him, but its not the same
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Post by Oakley on Feb 19, 2004 16:25:51 GMT -5
Okay, let's look at this situation? You are 28 and your boyfriend is 18 and he started Univ, and you fight all the time.  Your boyfriend is too young for you and he is now at Univ with peers his age. He needs to grow with people his own age and enjoy life as a Univ. student. Let him go and move on with your life. He needs to grow up and mature in college with his new found friends. You will get over your young love and move on with men closer to your age. Good luck!  |
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Post by Jarous on Feb 28, 2004 5:45:41 GMT -5
Honestly, if, as you say, you only argue all the time, I would agre with Oakley to let it go and move on with your life. But not just because of the age difference. If you two love each other mere 8 years shouldn't make the difference. Consider the University as a test of your relationship and fight for it!
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Post by prawnie on Feb 29, 2004 16:59:53 GMT -5
age should have nothing to do with how two people feel about each other
it could of worked for us, if he was more grown up and didnt act like a selfish person, he's ruined my life,and made it hell
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Post by Ghost on Feb 29, 2004 19:30:48 GMT -5
age should have nothing to do with how two people feel about each other it could of worked for us, if he was more grown up and didnt act like a selfish person, he's ruined my life,and made it hell Immaturity has often to do with age too (in some cases it doesn't, but that is not tha "case" we are discussing here). So in this case it is age after all that made a difference: he was just a teenage boy (eight - teen) and acted like such. It is rare that someone at that age and stage in their life act like grown ups, because they aren't. Reading hwo your realtionshop was, I don't think it was very healthy or long lasting that way. Don't give into the idea that he ruined your life. Don't give him that credit, 'k? ![]() talk.thebabycorner.com/images/smilies/awe.gif[/img] |
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Post by prawnie on Mar 1, 2004 14:35:41 GMT -5
dont worry after i gave him a long email about about he treated me, i think he will get the message what i think of him now
it has actually made me depressed in how he treated me, as i put it im way to good for him
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Post by Alecto on Mar 1, 2004 19:56:49 GMT -5
Thats good, that you've told him how you feel. That'll probably help you get this off your chest. Hope things get better for you.
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Post by prawnie on Mar 2, 2004 3:09:54 GMT -5
thanks, im getting there but it's hard
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Post by Ghost on Mar 2, 2004 12:09:19 GMT -5
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Post by prawnie on Mar 2, 2004 13:04:23 GMT -5
*big hugs * thankyou ghost ,i do feel better today  |
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Post by Ghost on Mar 3, 2004 16:55:29 GMT -5
Good to hear prawnie!  |
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Post by prawnie on Mar 5, 2004 3:09:56 GMT -5
he's getting on my nerves now, he's insulting my mates
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Post by Jarous on Mar 5, 2004 14:08:16 GMT -5
he's getting on my nerves now, he's insulting my mates Then it seems it was wise to split up. Don't worry about that much. If he persists, ignore him completely. You should both try to stay friends, but if it can't be helped - move on and leave him behind. |
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Post by Alecto on Mar 5, 2004 15:27:13 GMT -5
i think if he's insulting you and your friends it would probably be best to stay away from him as much as possible. You don't need some one around who treats you like that
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Post by prawnie on Mar 6, 2004 13:28:54 GMT -5
dont worry im not intending to see him again not after this but why do it to my friends aswell, im starting to hate him now
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