HELP!!! Date lined up!

[jimbob2301]

Hi

A few days ago I met a friend of my mates’ g/f and after going out drinking all night we both had a lot to drink and we were just chatting and at the end of the night she asked me for my number so we exchanged numbers and then a few days later arranged a date.

this is were the problem is she is quite a loud and confident person and I am totally opposite when I am around new people I don’t know I am quite quiet and cant seem to make conversation very easily and I get quite nervous.

Anyway we went out for a few drinks last night and we were talking for a bit but there was quite a few periods of silence and I couldn’t think of anything to say!!! and i could see at some points she was just looking around looking bored but at other moments we were both laughing and joking.

Now it’s the day after im feeling really down because I think ive blown my chances with this girl just because im shy.

I really like this girl and she obviously likes me otherwise she wouldn’t of asked for my number or meet back up with me last night.

now there is a little bit of hope, she has asked me if I want to go out this weekend to a club with her and one of her friends,

i dont have much experience dating so -

1. Have i blown my chances with this girl??

and

2. Does anyone have any advice so that can help me when we meet up again this weekend??


IM DESPERATE TO GET THIS GIRL!!!!!

Thanks

[lsdima4]

Anyway we went out for a few drinks last night and we were talking for a bit but there was quite a few periods of silence and I couldn’t think of anything to say!!! and i could see at some points she was just looking around looking bored but at other moments we were both laughing and joking.

Great

Now it’s the day after im feeling really down because I think ive blown my chances with this girl just because im shy.

Why? You did everything perfectly up to now.

now there is a little bit of hope, she has asked me if I want to go out this weekend to a club with her and one of her friends,

Here goes the steam...the unpopular stuff
D not go out to club with her and her friend.
Tell her you have made other plans and ask to meet with her later in the week. If she is interested she will agree.

Have i blown my chances with this girl??

Absolutely not

[wagnerr]

Guest-lsdima4 said:

Here goes the steam...the unpopular stuff
D not go out to club with her and her friend.
Tell her you have made other plans and ask to meet with her later in the week. If she is interested she will agree.

I can't believe i'm saying this, but i have to agree with Isdima here. You want the date to be between you and this girl, not with her friend along too.

And it sounds like she' really interested in you already. So you have a good chance. She gave you her phone number, right? And it was the correct number, right? Well, i think this should be your edge, and take confidence in this.

And if you can't think of anything to say, well, i've found it helps to tease women a little. This lessens some pressure. I don't know why, because i don't being teased myself, but the girls i've dated seemed to like it.