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Post by bianca on Mar 27, 2005 10:07:51 GMT -5
:-[am new n i gat very few friends to heng out with!!! :'(n everytime i get to lik a boy in my class it all turns out that he instead likes one of the other gals in my yr !!!! :'(n this bothers me alot.......i feel lonely n miss my country tho am here to stay.... juz broke up wit my boyfriend whum i had gon out wit for more than 2yrs!!!!!!! what shuld i do? i need friends in sch?! i almost hate maself because of my shyness...help...........  |
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Post by AnonYGiRL on Apr 8, 2005 23:28:42 GMT -5
You are so lucky. I am so quiet or "antisocial" (I have just recently been called this so maybe?). I am so quiet I have never had a boyfriend.  I have it way worse than you. I am even older than you because I just became a sophomore in college a few weeks ago (go AP!). Guys don't even WANT to talk to me. Okay, maybe they do but I scare them or they think I don't want them to. Maybe also build up on your friends like kind of hang out with your friend's friends and get to know them a bit. And here, too. I'm sorry you broke up with your boyfriend. That is hard. It will get better in a few weeks! Totally promise. As long as you are willing to feel better  . Which you should! |
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Post by Bunjimoon! on Jun 11, 2005 3:43:41 GMT -5
that is so wierd. I was so sure that most everyone has had a boyfriend or girlfriend by the time they passed high school. I have never had a girlfriend. It is sort of the same way with me. It seems like some girls do want to talk to me but that I either scare them off or send negative vibes as if I don't want to have anything do do with them. I'm 18 yrs old, just graduated and am pretty confused at how I got to be like this. Anyway, I guess that your not the only one!
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Post by chemistry on Jul 20, 2005 14:34:23 GMT -5
:)Hey Bunjimoon, what's up?
Just to let you know, you'd be surprised at how many guys and gals have never been with anyone by the time they leave high school. So, don't feel so bad, you're not alone.
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Post by annaa on Jul 20, 2005 17:22:38 GMT -5
Are there any clubs at school (either during lunchtime or after school) that you'd be interested in joining?
You may want to consider joining one if there is. You can meet people with similar interests to you.
I'm sorry you broke up with your boyfriend. When it comes to finding a new one, don't worry yourself about it. Year 10 boys aren't exactly worth getting upset over (i'm in Year 10 too).
If I were you, i'd focus on making more friends first. Worry about a boyfriend later.
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Post by paul1983 on Jul 22, 2005 10:20:00 GMT -5
Join the club, Bunjimoon!
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I have it way worse than you. I am even older than you because I just became a sophomore in college a few weeks ago (go AP!). Guys don't even WANT to talk to me. Okay, maybe they do but I scare them or they think I don't want them to. Maybe also build up on your friends like kind of hang out with your friend's friends and get to know them a bit. And here, too. 
. Which you should! 