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Post by lonelyheart on May 4, 2005 6:29:52 GMT -5
I will use this post to vent / talk about crushes.
Anyway, I've had a crush on this girl in my course for a year now. I am in the same tute class as her, I still can't find the courage to talk to her. She is very very hot and seems quite outgoing.
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Post by Richard Cunningham on May 4, 2005 6:45:51 GMT -5
I will use this post to vent / talk about crushes. Anyway, I've had a crush on this girl in my course for a year now. I am in the same tute class as her, I still can't find the courage to talk to her. She is very very hot and seems quite outgoing. Hot and outgoing. Bad combo. |
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Post by lonelyheart on May 4, 2005 7:16:05 GMT -5
Yeah, I know but she seems nice and smart in class.  |
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Post by I am Jack's wasted life on May 4, 2005 23:41:32 GMT -5
Agree with Rich. Hot plus outgoing combo makes it a LOT harder for you to get a chance with her, especially if you're shy. She probably has a whole bunch of guys after her already.
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Post by zaab on May 5, 2005 2:05:45 GMT -5
I feel like girls like this are operating in an entirely different gear than I am. It would be difficult for me to relate. I don't care if they're entirely shy or not, but they do have to be somewhat low key for me to mesh with them.
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Post by Richard Cunningham on May 5, 2005 8:46:58 GMT -5
I feel like girls like this are operating in an entirely different gear than I am. It would be difficult for me to relate. I don't care if they're entirely shy or not, but they do have to be somewhat low key for me to mesh with them. Me too. Need someone to hide in the shadows with me. |
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Post by lonelyheart on May 7, 2005 21:08:55 GMT -5
Well I'd like to, but not really during class when everyone is there because I will definately blush hard, I blush lightly just looking at her speak in class sometimes.
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Post by Max Power on May 13, 2005 21:18:56 GMT -5
I will use this post to vent / talk about crushes. Anyway, I've had a crush on this girl in my course for a year now. I am in the same tute class as her, I still can't find the courage to talk to her. She is very very hot and seems quite outgoing. Hmmmm... one of those tanned blondes you fancy so much? Rookie.  I've had a crush on a girl in high school for three years without talking to her. All it did was begin my depression and realization that I'm a coward. But you can end this trend. Instead of just going up and tapping her on her shoulder, right before you pass out, why don't you play this little trick: Talk to her... wait, don't say you can't because this trick won't work unless you do... now, subtly act out your feelings towards her. Go ahead and blush. Go ahead and smile and giggle or whatever shy boys your age do. Treat her special. Lend her your pen when her's runs out of ink. Answer that tough question she can't answer herself. Why do this? Because she will get hints that you like her. Not a straight up, "hey I like you" but in her head she will get those hints and start playing Columbo. Start analyzing because this shy guy treats her so special and blushes when he talks to me. She'll also think that you don't know that she may know even though you know that she knows and you know she knows that you don't know even though you know... or soemthing Maroon 5 said. If you get the courage to do this, watch how she acts around you. If she's cold and indifferent, move on. She couldn't care less. However, if she acts the same way, is still friendly with you or a little more friendly with you, she either doesn't give it a second thought (which means you need to take the next step to get her interested), or she may be flattered and open for a handsome guy like yourself to take her to the soda pop shop or wherever it is you young kids go. But be prepared. If she's really outgoing and popular, you'll be a fish out of water if her friends are the same way. |
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Post by lonelyheart on May 14, 2005 7:08:00 GMT -5
Alright, an update on a boring Saturday night... I messed up last week, I blushed hard when she walked into the tutorial room late and then we had a lecture together and I walked right past her out of the exit of the theatre, like I 'pushed' her to the side. :\
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Post by lonelyheart on May 14, 2005 7:44:09 GMT -5
You mean like in an open public place? or in class? I find it infinately easier to talk to the international students for some odd reason... but some have terrible English skills. Can't ignore the advice of someone from Venus  |
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Post by lonelyheart on May 24, 2005 4:38:03 GMT -5
given up hope, i will never stop blushing, so how can i expect to talk to any girls.
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Post by pnoopiepnats on May 24, 2005 4:52:50 GMT -5
given up hope, i will never stop blushing, so how can i expect to talk to any girls. Hi! How about trying to talk to them anyway? I still blush at the worst times but it doesn't seem to matter. In meetings if I have to talk or someone calls attention to my work, I wll blush. I even stutter sometimes and it hasn't made any difference, meaning nobody said anything to me about it in a meeting or afterwards. As for the voice thing, practice reading outloud. Try slowing your normal voice down just a tiny bit. |
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Post by lonelyheart on May 24, 2005 5:03:45 GMT -5
I go fully red during class, sometimes start to sweat. EVERYONE looks at me.
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Post by Spartan on May 24, 2005 6:12:00 GMT -5
I go fully red during class, sometimes start to sweat. EVERYONE looks at me. Just try and relax. Take deep breaths. Not everyone will look at you. As for the blushing...just let it happen and try to ignore it. Some girls might even think it's cute. |
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Post by lonelyheart on May 24, 2005 8:52:09 GMT -5
no girls like a short shy blushing asian bloke.
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I've had a crush on a girl in high school for three years without talking to her. All it did was begin my depression and realization that I'm a coward. But you can end this trend. 