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Post by Bodhi on May 27, 2006 7:46:55 GMT -5
So I've decided to make this the year of change. My New Year's resolution was to find a girlfriend and even though recently I've been extremely depressed about that, I realize its not even June yet and I have made significant progress. On January 1st I had never gone on a real date, yet 5 months later I've been on 7 dates with two girls. Even though things with both girls ended badly, at least it was experience. I hugged both of them but the elusive kiss never came. Therefore in the next few months that is my goal, to kiss a girl. Then my goal by the end of the this year is to lose my virginity. After that I will finally have all those things out of the way that most guys in high school have done. I realize this will be a huge effort for me because of my anxiety, but I need to do it to feel like a human being. Right now I feel like a weirdo and outcast from the world since I haven't done these things by the age of 24. My birthday is December 31st, so I want to have done these things by the time I turn 25. Then I will feel like I was actually part of the world and living life and not just wasting my time on this earth.
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Post by griffins on May 27, 2006 10:36:12 GMT -5
I have gone on 7 dates with 4 girls and now with summer here and me with more time...I too will set the same goals as you. (except I'm a year older than you...so I'm already behind!!)
Good Luck
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Post by Bodhi on May 27, 2006 11:39:16 GMT -5
I have gone on 7 dates with 4 girls and now with summer here and me with more time...I too will set the same goals as you. (except I'm a year older than you...so I'm already behind!!) Good Luck Great! We can give advice and share stories on how things are going. If anyone else wants to also try to start making changes in their life in the romantic department, join us.  |
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Post by annaa on May 28, 2006 18:41:25 GMT -5
Well you've done amazingly so far. If you carry on at the rate you've been going, I don't think those other things are unrealistic.
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Post by Bodhi on Jun 12, 2006 14:02:57 GMT -5
Well my first goal is already done and its just the begining of summer. I should easily acomplish all my goals by the end of the year, and most likely very soon. Its hard and takes effort to do things you've never done before. Its incredibly scary to go out of the comfort zone you've lived in your entire life. Yet I realize it can be done, things can change if you put yourself out there and make an effort. But you have to be willing to face your fears head on and that is the hardest part to overcome. Yet I think in the long run its the best thing to do even if you have to go through incredible pain and hurt for a time... things can change eventually.
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