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Post by kazzanova on Nov 25, 2006 16:51:59 GMT -5
im shy as hell how can i let go ? ??
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Post by Awake on Nov 25, 2006 22:28:02 GMT -5
only sixty-four dollars? who do i send it to  |
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Post by Rose on Nov 25, 2006 23:08:06 GMT -5
There are about as many types of shy as there are shy people. Figure out your reason for being shy, then work from there.
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Post by dog on Nov 29, 2006 20:31:27 GMT -5
im shy as hell how can i let go ? ?? Judging by your name, your chief worry should be avoiding Nazis, not shyness.  |
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Post by shyguy99 on Jan 31, 2007 2:29:12 GMT -5
You can't, sorry  |
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Post by huskydawg on Feb 1, 2007 1:06:51 GMT -5
Try and pretend you're not and practice. Don't worry about messing up, people make mistakes in conversation all the time.
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Post by lavigne on Apr 13, 2007 10:10:55 GMT -5
You know that you are shy so let that be your motivation to gain confidence. Every time you feel shy, focus on fighting that feeling. Think that you are not shy and face the situation. Don't think too much of your shyness when in conversation. Instead, concentrate on the conversation so that you can think of what to say or respond to it. If you are too preoccupied by your problem in shyness, you will be lost in the conversation and you might also lose things or ideas to say. __________________ shyness Free Report reveals how to overcome shyness. Get it here: www-shyness.com/self confidence Free Report reveals how to develop self-confidence. Get it here: www-confidence.com/ |
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Post by melissaqu on Apr 13, 2007 18:46:23 GMT -5
It helps to focus on the conversation, or whatever it is that you're in contact with, instead of focusing on how you may look or speak. It will divert your attention and help you better focus.
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Post by annaa on Apr 14, 2007 18:37:13 GMT -5
You're not really asking the right people.
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Post by Naptaq on Apr 15, 2007 4:30:30 GMT -5
You're not really asking the right people. That seems to be correct. It's like asking people who haven't fixed a car in their life: "How do you fix a car?" I see this as a place where people share their shy stories. And sometimes you get acceptance and compassion. That as all well and good. Some people decide to go for it and succeed. So it's really a choise. Somebody mentioned religion. That's actually not a bad idea and although I don't consider myself to be a member of any religion I recognise the truths of, say, The Golden Rule that religions have. There's plenty of programs and books on how to overcome social anxiety and such. Or shyness. Seek and you shall find. It's true.  I think I have made leaps of progress since I joined this site, but I still have a lot of work to do. Oh and here's a little something that might help: - Courage - Acceptance - Forgivness ( forgive yourself and others) I hope this helps, peace |
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Post by lennythegiant on Apr 20, 2007 12:53:39 GMT -5
im shy as hell how can i let go ? ?? If we knew none of us would be here. |
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Post by koolguy on Apr 20, 2007 13:07:41 GMT -5
well its all like a game at first u dont no how to play it then after a while u learn and master the game so just be ready to get hurt but dont let that scare u just learn how to play the game then u will have it all |
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Post by lavigne on Jun 7, 2007 9:28:44 GMT -5
You're not really asking the right people. But I think he or she have come to the right place. Some of the people here could have had experiences they can relate to and has overcome shyness in a certain situation. Also, some of us here could have overcome shyness and could give us some tips. ___________________ shyness Free Report reveals how to overcome shyness. Get it here: www-shyness.com/self confidence Free Report reveals how to develop self-confidence. Get it here: www-confidence.com/ |
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Post by xnickx on Jun 7, 2007 19:50:27 GMT -5
It's not easy it's more a journey of self discovery. Climb a couple of mountains meditate and start a new religion. Two things are gonna happen to stop that nagging shyness. 1.your gonna meet someone who will change who you are and will help you through etc etc 2.Your gonna say screw this i don't wanna be timid anymore punch a door and talk to everyone you see  Shyness doesn't go away by buying a book or someone tells you a good trick there are none it's up to you. |
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Post by saphron on Jun 16, 2007 23:16:09 GMT -5
Shyness is hard to get rid of.I think if you grow up quiet its always going to be a bit of it there always even if you start to be more social as you get older. The last few years ever since I graduated High School alot of my shyness has gone away. Probably due to being in the real world and learning my need to be a little outgoing. Probably due to having a few jobs that require talking to people and me going to skincare school, I had to deal with talking with people weither I wanted to or not. Maybe doing something that requires being social will help you. I've noticed that its made me get out of my shell a bit
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Befriend the trees...they are good listeners. ;D
