Post by halflife2008 on May 28, 2008 16:40:45 GMT -5
I am 26 years old and I have done nothing with my life. From the age of 10 years old I have been shy and introvert. I have had friends up to about 15 years old but you could call them the loser group. We would play football at lunchtimes at school and not discuss the important issues like girls or other things. I have always been immature for my age and am still shy even now. I missed out on my teenage years altogether because I was still acting like a child. I have hardly spoke to anyone for 15 years because of self loathing and shyness. I have occupied my time using computers, going out on my own and work. I thought I could replace interaction with people with artifcial things like TV. I have no personality because I don't speak to people. Fear has held me back from speaking to people and I haven't bothered to learn about important things in life. I know nothing about anything important in life and cannot have a conversation even with my parents. I thought for years that other things could preoccupy my mind and I didn't need to interact with others. I am the ultimate loner. I am quite intelligent but I only know about things that are of no use to me in everyday life. I recently have thought about ending my life because there is no way I can talk to anyone again. At the age of 26 I have realised how important it is to talk to people, to gain experience on life but I have not done this. I eat, sleep go to work and watch TV, use my computer. If I do things it is on my own. If you do things on your own 24/7 they are not as enjoyable as you can imagine. I recently went swimming on my own which was good but what next? I have little confidence in my self but know I am a good person. If you only have yourself for company, you can get bored of that person. I spend time with others but have little to say to them because I have no real personality. I know I might have another 26 years or more left on earth and I'm not sure I can take it. I have an inbuilt ability to carry on with life but I mean what kind of life is it? You can't turn the clock back but I wish at the age of 12 years old I had tried harder to fit in and learn. My world is constantly surrounded by chatting voices but I know I cannot join in. This is my life so far. I know I cannot change what has gone in the past but I don't want to look to the future either. I take one day at a time and I hope one day to accept what I am and just get on with it. I needed to put this in writing and for some reason chose this forum. I am a good, nice person but nice guys finish last. I hope my life can be a lesson to anyone that is shy and quiet - don't wake up in your mid twenties and wonder what you did with you life. Grab life with both hands.