Post by rubyroxs on May 29, 2008 22:23:14 GMT -5
So I got out of an abusive relationship maybe seven weeks ago. I'm safe and fine. But wondering about what's coming next.
There's this guy who i met way back in Dec. Long story short, he's the cousin of the guy one of my best friends is dating. All four of us have been out in the bars together a few times usually drunk. The first time we were both pretty drunk and he wanted to spend the night. Given my past, I said no! Last weekend the four of us had a great time at a reunion and none of us were drinking. He keeps telling me he likes me and I keep telling him we need to go slow! I like him, but it's annoying when he calls me every night and says he's frustrated that we have to wait until the weekend to see each other. I told him again! I need to go slow, I just got out of a train wreck and I don't want to start a whole new one. I seem to be bad at reading signs. My friend and his cuz obviously say its a go. But I just wanted some neutral advice. Are there warning flags with this new guy here I'm missing?
There's this guy who i met way back in Dec. Long story short, he's the cousin of the guy one of my best friends is dating. All four of us have been out in the bars together a few times usually drunk. The first time we were both pretty drunk and he wanted to spend the night. Given my past, I said no! Last weekend the four of us had a great time at a reunion and none of us were drinking. He keeps telling me he likes me and I keep telling him we need to go slow! I like him, but it's annoying when he calls me every night and says he's frustrated that we have to wait until the weekend to see each other. I told him again! I need to go slow, I just got out of a train wreck and I don't want to start a whole new one. I seem to be bad at reading signs. My friend and his cuz obviously say its a go. But I just wanted some neutral advice. Are there warning flags with this new guy here I'm missing?
