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Post by nokotbon25 on Dec 8, 2008 11:41:18 GMT -5
Hello guys.
I'm sorry but i really dont like some girls. they seem really ugly and i can't make myself like them. When i look at them, they disgust me. Sorry but that's just how it is.
And also I'm so ugly too, so i'm sure the girls that I like think i'm ugly and disgusting too.
So the question is, why? Why are some of us ugly when that would mean that nobody will like us and we will forever be lonely with no gf/bf. no mating, no reproduction.
Why does nature make unattractive people? I dont understand it
just a thought.
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Post by airburst on Dec 8, 2008 12:51:46 GMT -5
Nature doesn't "make" anyone out to be anything. The way you are physically is just chance. You're just a bunch of molecules that are randomly put together based on the DNA of your parents.
Why are some people ugly? That's just the way it is.
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Post by 10010101001111 on Dec 8, 2008 13:42:58 GMT -5
rofl that's a little mean. but why the hell do they disgust you? Why do you dislike them? You should admire them for not saying mean things like you ;D i'm on their side because i have a couple of ugly friends. and they're cool I protect them from the dark forces. you aren't good-looking for one reason. maybe you'll give other non-pretty people a shot at love
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Post by rukryM on Dec 8, 2008 14:24:51 GMT -5
The opinions some have about people, be it boys or girls are ugly, varies from individual to individual. One guy may find a girl attractive and another doesn't. That's just the way it is. We are all attracted, physically, to different factors. There are girls who I find more beautiful than others, but I cannot say that any girl is ugly, there's always a good feature with anyone, though the "bad" {which of course is an individual opinion} ones might dominate.
Also, I think this kind of thinking is just destroying, there will come nothing good out of it. People are different, that's just the way it is^^.
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Post by Sweet Pea on Dec 8, 2008 18:34:43 GMT -5
if we were all good looking, no one would be good looking! to wax philosophical for a moment, i think we actually are all good looking. we are all good representatives of our species. if we weren't, we'd be dead. i think to a member of another species, we probably all look virtually identical. like a herd of zebras does to us. we are fussing over minute details in our judgement of each other as ugly or beautiful, because the differences are actually minute compared to the similarities.
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Post by MrNice on Dec 8, 2008 18:48:14 GMT -5
the advertisements on this thread are amazing
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Post by Farouche on Dec 8, 2008 19:23:54 GMT -5
Air Burst --------------- Why are some people ugly? That's just the way it is. Yep, sorry, Nokotbon. Maybe one day you and and a disgusting girl will be able to each force yourselves past your gag reflexes enough to forge a happy relationship. But do be careful about the sex... That's HOW nature makes unattractive people.
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Post by 10010101001111 on Dec 8, 2008 19:30:18 GMT -5
Air Burst --------------- Why are some people ugly? That's just the way it is. Yep, sorry, Nokotbon. Maybe one day you and and a disgusting girl will be able to each force yourselves past your gag reflexes enough to forge a happy relationship. But do be careful about the sex... That's HOW nature makes unattractive people. Farouche dear, you are full of knowledge!!!
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Post by reason on Dec 8, 2008 20:04:09 GMT -5
This is a funny thread. Made me chuckle!
We are all very varied. There are some people who one person will find stunningly attractive all the way down the scale to a very small number that may actually repulse you. As bad as that sounds, there are some who are horrible. There has to be some at either extreme end of the spectrum for each person for there to *be* an each end and middle (I hope that made sense).
I think Nokotbon may have been a little unclear with what he wrote. The ones you really don't like, you don't have to go out with them. Someone else will find them attractive. Likewise, some of the women you find attractive, someone else will seriously not like.
It's that crazy thing called Mother Nature at work again. I could spend 28 hours a day wishing I looked just 0.01% as hot as some men that women swoon over but I know that didn't and never will happen.
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Post by nokotbon25 on Dec 8, 2008 20:27:29 GMT -5
All the girls that i find attractive are the ones my relatives also find attractive.. and all of my relatives friends also find them attractive. Explain that
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Post by nokotbon25 on Dec 8, 2008 20:31:42 GMT -5
Oh and I didn't mean to say they disgust me. I mean to say they're just not attractive to me. "disgust" sounds too strong for what i wanted to say. sorry
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Post by nelo on Dec 8, 2008 21:06:41 GMT -5
I don't wish I were anything like anyone else. Some things you might find ugly about someone, other people might find attractive. Or at least not as repelling.
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Post by strawberrysweetie on Dec 8, 2008 23:03:11 GMT -5
I just noticed this thread. And I must say, it makes me sick.
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Post by madiocre on Dec 24, 2008 0:51:07 GMT -5
ok i look at it this way there are pretty people... people that alot of other people find atractive then there are people that not so many people find attractive but with any person there will be enough people who find them attractive just some people have more people who find them attractive but that doesnt really matter .
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Post by wapwawet on Dec 24, 2008 3:46:06 GMT -5
To answer the OP's question, looks are just a random thing, evolution or whatever. Some studies say we subconsciously want the good looking ones b/c that is a sign of prior good health. There's more to this, but I forgot.
Also, I don't think looks are as wildly subjective as people think. Most women find Brad Pitt attractive, right?
Eh..sometimes I wish we were all just floating brains, unconcerned with looks But, then it'd be like "look at the cerebellum on that ****, I'd tap that!" That'd just be weird.
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