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Post by Bodhi on Jan 23, 2009 11:27:59 GMT -5
Just wondering what peoples thoughts were on when you and the person you are dating can start to call yourself boyfriend and girlfriend?
Any benchmarks you think you have to get to to be at that level?
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Post by nelo on Jan 23, 2009 12:30:33 GMT -5
3 dates? Maybe after the first kiss.
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Post by pnoopiepnats on Jan 23, 2009 14:48:47 GMT -5
After dating a little while maybe a month just ask them if they want to be exclusive.
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Post by Sweet Pea on Jan 23, 2009 16:37:30 GMT -5
as soon as i tattoo my name on his butt and put a collar on him, he's mine! ;D
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Post by rukryM on Jan 23, 2009 17:31:05 GMT -5
After some dates where you feel that person is special, that he/she appreciates you in a way no one does, touches your feelings in a way no one does and kind of have "chemistry" for him/her. Depends a lot, but I'd say it usually occurs after 2-3 months^^.
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Post by skyhint on Jan 23, 2009 21:48:42 GMT -5
Bench marks? No. You just have make an agreement to be eachothers bf/gf. It's often the first thing one does.
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Post by nelo on Jan 24, 2009 0:12:19 GMT -5
Speaking of tattoos, I'm not a big celebrity person but I was bored on IMDb and I read that Johnny Depp had a tattoo "Winona Forever" while dating Winona Ryder...after they broke up, he reduced it to "Wino Forever".
/random comment end
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Post by Sweet Pea on Jan 24, 2009 2:04:45 GMT -5
when you are spending alot of time together you will eventually bond (or not). if you do bond, it's usually an unspoken thing at first that you are both aware of. eventually if you continue to feel bonded, you may feel the need to formalize it by making some kind of verbal commitment. this is often followed by an exchange of tokens, such as jewelry you give each other...a ring or something. or you might get tattoos! ;D
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Post by rukryM on Jan 24, 2009 4:35:27 GMT -5
If you go to Miami or LA and get tattooed by Ami or Kat von D then there's obviously no doubt^^.
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Post by Sweet Pea on Jan 24, 2009 11:57:32 GMT -5
If you go to Miami or LA and get tattooed by Ami or Kat von D then there's obviously no doubt^^. i had to google that, lol. i bought a henna tattoo kit a long time ago. i wonder if i'm ever gonna get a chance to use it on anyone. i think it looks like fun. ;D www.earthhenna.com/c7/mini-henna-body-painting-kit-p92.html
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Post by rukryM on Jan 24, 2009 12:56:22 GMT -5
Doesn't tattooing hurt?
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Post by Sweet Pea on Jan 24, 2009 13:03:21 GMT -5
from what i understand it's excrutiating...but henna tattoos are temporary tattoos that you paint on...no needles. at worst it tickles a little bit. sorry we're not being very helpful, bodhi. are you getting serious about the girl you're dating?
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