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Post by bleaknunhappy on Apr 20, 2009 9:39:29 GMT -5
So I've had my eye on this girl for a while, we are friends, I know she likes me back but we are both shy. I really want to show that I like her back but I really am at a loss for words when I try to talk to her. Any advice?
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Post by Sweet Pea on Apr 20, 2009 11:40:09 GMT -5
So I've had my eye on this girl for a while, we are friends, I know she likes me back but we are both shy. I really want to show that I like her back but I really am at a loss for words when I try to talk to her. Any advice? i think when you're shy it's easy to be mistaken for someone who just wants to be friends. so i think it's important to do or say something that unmistakably indicates your interest. so just choose some 'date-like' activity you can handle even though you don't talk alot and invite her. by date-like, i mean something you wouldn't invite someone you just want to be friends with to do with you. when you are spending time with her, don't forget to show interest in her, ask questions to get her to tell you about herself - what she likes, doesn't like, what she thinks about this or that. sometimes guys get really focused on expressing who they are and forget to express interest in who she is. |
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Post by Scotty on Apr 20, 2009 17:44:22 GMT -5
"you and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals..." ;D
But seriously, what Sweet Pea said. You are lucky in that you know she likes you. Most of us are too busy being worried that the girl doesn't feel the same.
Ask her out. Good luck friend.
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Post by cyclopse on Apr 26, 2009 21:57:00 GMT -5
Thats a good question... I was at a bar the other nite with some friends and i guess a girl that was thier told her friend she liked me. I didnt find out this till after she left for the nite... Not like i was going to do anything anyway. lol
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Post by Sweet Pea on Apr 27, 2009 0:35:14 GMT -5
Thats a good question... I was at a bar the other nite with some friends and i guess a girl that was thier told her friend she liked me. I didnt find out this till after she left for the nite... Not like i was going to do anything anyway. lol why not? you don't have to worry about rejection now. so now what's holding you back? i would guess you're not really that interested in her? |
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Post by jai on Apr 28, 2009 0:46:25 GMT -5
Dude you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. So take this one! If she's shy too she knows how you feel but being the guy we have to usually ask first unfortunatly.
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Post by cyclopse on May 10, 2009 19:10:57 GMT -5
I actually havent seen her since she said that. Her friend was seeing my friend but they broke up.
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