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Post by rudy on Jan 4, 2010 13:59:15 GMT -5
okay, so i finally get the never to go this dance that my youth group invited me to go(i'm 17). so i got there to meet new people,
then BAM.. i see the girl of my dreams in the corner of my eyes.. i mean she was the girl i was looking for. but yet i couldn't approach or talk to her cuz of my f-ing shyness and inhibition. but the funny thing i danced like i was drunk and had no fear of looking like a idiot dancing
i don't think it couldn't be easier set up like that than that. i know i 'm just going to die alone.
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Post by pluralzalpha2 on Feb 13, 2010 2:10:25 GMT -5
no don't say that. you are still young there's still lots of time for you to find that incredibly special lady! and someone out there looking for the equally incredibly special guy which could be you. you never know. dont give up searchingl you're 17; that's just a start, fella. Really. just keep plugging away
of course you were shy and probably nervous at that dance. there are people like you who are shy talking to the opposite sex, but hardly bat an eyelash at doing a dance step in front of people and not caring who sees. you probably just froze as people with shyness do. thats what happens to me when i need to say something to someone and im nervous. don;t be hard on yourself. its the talking that is the tough part. you'll get there. still plenty of time.
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Post by fightingspirit on Feb 13, 2010 2:37:03 GMT -5
okay, so i finally get the never to go this dance that my youth group invited me to go(i'm 17). so i got there to meet new people, then BAM.. i see the girl of my dreams in the corner of my eyes.. i mean she was the girl i was looking for. but yet i couldn't approach or talk to her cuz of my f-ing shyness and inhibition. but the funny thing i danced like i was drunk and had no fear of looking like a idiot dancing i don't think it couldn't be easier set up like that than that. i know i 'm just going to die alone. It could be the girl of your dreams. I met mine when I was 15 years old. I wasn't anywhere near ready to let her know how I felt and I doubted she would reciprocate, but it hurts, to this day, that I didn't try. I never found anyone close to her even now that I am going on 30. Chances will pass you by if you don't take them and there are no do overs in this life. Good luck. I am guessing that you'll need it... |
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Post by rudy on Mar 7, 2010 13:43:00 GMT -5
idk its a cycle for me. i'll go a day with saying hi to every girl i see, then the next day not say anything at all.
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Post by cyphrshy1 on Mar 9, 2010 18:39:58 GMT -5
well Rudy that's a start ;D--really you're making progress. you're talking to a girl 50% of the time. that's a better percentage than some talk to the opposite sex. As k-pax said, don't give up keep plugging away...nothing ventured nothing gained: there was someone who said "trying was never beat...til somebody quit trying". Keep at it, man, the more you attempt, the better your chances of success of meeting your objective  . |
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Post by rudy on Mar 11, 2010 21:47:53 GMT -5
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Post by luminesca on Mar 12, 2010 0:06:43 GMT -5
lol that clip was funny  Hey at least its a start. Better than silence. I actually wanna try something like that some day. It should be amusing. |
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Post by rudy on Mar 12, 2010 19:58:54 GMT -5
damn i just don't get it. sometimes i wonder if i even exist. why do i have to be covered head to toe in acne and crippling shy and ackward while iwatch everyone clear skin, friends, laugh and go about their lives. i just don't fucking get it. well fuck em all.
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Post by kindashy on Apr 21, 2010 22:23:49 GMT -5
Hey man... I guess you and me are in the same boat.
when i say hi to girls, i get a hi back, and then have a short little conversation... but then i run out of things to say. just today my friend and i were talking to a girl, but once my friend left me and her alone, there was this huge silence....
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Hey at least its a start. Better than silence. I actually wanna try something like that some day. It should be amusing.